Saturday, October 11, 2008

24 – A time of hurt and sorrow

On Thursday evening of this week I was about to depart our family room to retire for the evening. All that was on my mind was taking Nightquil and sleeping through the night to battle the congestion in my chest. I was surprised when Sharron’s cell phone rang. I was even more surprised by the look of shock on her face. Our daughter Danielle was calling. She was crying and told Sharron that “BO” had attacked her.

The backdrop: Sharron and I had been enjoying keeping our grand daughter Alyse for the past week as Josh and Stephanie completed a super busy week with church activities and the had made their way to Atlanta to attend the Catalyst Conference where their pastor, Steven Furtick ,was speaking. Danielle was at their home taking care of their pets, Bo – a rottweiler - lab mix; Zeke – a golden retriever – mix, who has been our family pet for 12 years and Bubba their family cat.

The event: Danielle was getting ready for bed. As she went to the bedroom she did not know were Bo was, so she called his name. AS she walked around the corner to the bedroom, she paused and looking into Bo’s crate. He was there, and sprang forward, knocking Danielle to the ground with a momentary attack. As Danielle screamed the dog retreated, but it was too late. Danielle suffered a major cut across her forehead with minor cuts across her face and head. She was able to call our close friend Joy Huber, who lives in the neighborhood. Joy took Danielle to the hospital. Danielle went into surgery in the early morning hours of Friday.

Meanwhile, Sharron received the call from Danielle and had a look of shock on her face. We quickly packed a bag, carried Alyse from a sleeping bed to the car, and departed for Charlotte. Sharron contacted Stephanie and Josh. They had just enjoyed a great day at Catalyst and we celebrating with friends. They also responded quickly. The departed Atlanta immediately and met us in Charlotte in the early hours of Friday morning.

The surgeon came from behind the door into the family waiting room and gave the encouraging report to Sharron. The surgery for Danielle was successful, now a long healing process begins. When I met the surgeon later that morning I asked how many stitches she had – and he simply responded “I lost count”. Danielle summarized it as – “One day a little girl asked me if I was Cinderella to now looking like something out of a horror picture.”

Danielle was discharged from the hospital about 5:00pm on Friday. She returned to Josh and Stephanie’s home. The plan is for her to come to Raleigh with Sharron and let us take care of her. Her next doctor’s appointment is Wednesday of this next week.

Josh and Stephanie were faced with a heartbreaking decision. Because of this momentary aggression, something had to be done with Bo. Several options were explored but the decision was to take Bo to the vet and be put down. Bo was a well trained rottweiler and very gentle around Alyse but now he was potentially dangerous and the safety of their family must have priority. It is heartbreaking that the family pet was involved in this accidental event, but action had to be taken.

Our prayers are for Danielle as she slowly heals from her wounds. We also pray for Josh and Stephanie as they mourn the loss of their family pet. It is such an unfortunate series of events. As believers in the Lord we thank God that the wounds to Danielle were not any more serious and have faith for her healing. The surgeon said that just two weeks will make a major difference in her appearance. We also believe the event on Thursday evening and Friday somehow fit into God’s plan for our lives.

The events of this 24 hour period have been filled with hurt and sorrow. I respect Josh so much for the difficult decision about Bo, but it saddens me, but believe it was the right thing to do. Thank you for your prayers during this difficult time for our family.

Thursday, October 9, 2008

Some pictures for Stephanie

Since Alyse has been with us for one week today - I thought her mommy would like to see how she is doing at Papa's. She has been very curious - into a lot a things. I caught her today - once again climbing into the dryer.

When she saw me with the camera she tried to close the door



The time in the dryer ended after ten minutes of playing "peek a boo". She giggled often and was ready to move on to the next challenge in our home.


One day this week we took her to Bob Evans Restaurant to introduce her to chicken and noodles. She really enjoyed that trip! But hates to pose for pictures

We have had the opportunity to play almost every evening before bed time. She breaks out in a giggle when she hears me say -"Papa's gonna git you!"


We are having a wonderful time having Alyse in our home this week. I do believe she looks forward to seeing mommy on Saturday!
With every hug of my precious Alyse - I thank God that we are in North Carolina. God is working out His plan in our life.






Wednesday, October 8, 2008

How to invite someone to church

This coming Sunday at NRN we will celebrate our second CHURCH UNDER THE BIG TOP!
A great time is planned for all as we gather under the big tent for a worship experience followed by an old fashion Carolina "Pig-Pickin" Barbecue with all the fixings. Inflatables for the children along with face painting and even a family photo booth. Please accept my personal invitation to come and join us!

If you attend NRN and need assistance in inviting your friends, neighbors, work associates and those whom God has to cross your path - here is a little tutorial I think you will enjoy:


Please note that these techniques are NOT trustworthy statements and are not endorsed by me (unless they work) - and YES - they can bring a friend - and so should you!
Hope to see you Sunday at NRN!

Tuesday, October 7, 2008

Out of Many One - Out of One Many

The Centennial Celebration Service of the Triangle area of the Church of the Nazarene took place this past Sunday - October 5, 2008. The reports are in that over 1,000 people gathered at the Meymandi Hall in the Progress Energy Center in downtown Raleigh, NC.



Special appreciation goes to Pastors Jeremy Henderson and Brian Powell from Raleigh First Church of the Nazarene; Pastor Royce Hathcock of Tapestry, Pastor Katherine Widdifield of Cary Penny Road, Pastor Glenn Messner of Wake Forrest Church of the Nazarene, and Pastor Caleb Buna of Raleigh International Evangelical Church of the Nazarene.



Also a note of thanks to Steven Rutherford and his team for the sound and media work, and to Karen DeSollar for the design work on the invitations and the Celebration Booklet. The list could go on and on. I was so impressed by the nursery and children's workers. It was so helpful to arrive at the Center and see the individuals holding the parking signs and helping with directions. Many people behind the scenes and the great music (especially the choir!) added much to the service.


I have heard several comments about my attire on Sunday. A number of people took pictures and made comments about me wearing a suit. Thank you for the kind words and remember what I said: " This event takes only takes place every one hundred years."



I do believe this was a life changing event for some people who came forward at the invitation. I also believe this was a historic event for the Church of the Nazarene in the Raleigh area. The fellowship was great and it seemed people truly enjoyed being with each other. It was greatly encouraging to see nearly 1,300 people at one time in one place giving glory to God!



As we reflect on this Centennial Celebration for the Church of the Nazarene it has been good to reflect upon our heritage and the blessing of God. I do think we need a BIG picture of God in the world. Below is a humorous parody of Gilbert and Sullivan’s Modern Major General covering the entire history of the church – by Paul Adlrich. Enjoy:


Saturday, October 4, 2008

Time in the rocking chair














This has been a great day as I spent time with Alyse. She arrived for a short visit with us in Raleigh. Here is Alyse coming from my office with Sharron behind her.

Yesterday, Alyse helped with the preparation of the welcome bags for the event tomorrow. Today she made a short appearance at the women's ministry kick-off at NRN. Later in the day we went to one of her favorite restaurants, Cracker Barrel, for their delicious chicken and dumplings.


We took time to sit on the rocking chairs and just relax in the beautiful NC weather.

We hope she has a good night's rest and is ready for the big service tomorrow at the Meymandi Hall in downtown Raleigh. We anticipate over 1,000 people joining us for the Centennial Celebration for the Church of the Nazarene.

It is always fun when Alyse comes to visit!

Meeting at Meymandi

Today begins the final preparations for a great worship experience for the Raleigh area Centennial Celebration of the Church of the Nazarene. Several pastors from the Triangle have been meeting and praying for this event. In local churches the choirs have rehearsed, the musicians prepared and over the next 24 hours the plans turn into actions and we gather to celebrate our heritage and face the future with greater unity.















Yesterday a group of volunteers from North Raleigh gathered to prepare the guest bags to be given to every person on Sunday. A shout out of thanks goes to Pastor Brittany Cottle, Marianne Boettler, Lisa Mayfield, Dave and Karen Joslin, Sharron Hudgens and Alyse. They took the time to place the items in the bags and have them ready for Saturday morning.


The service on Sunday will not only be historical but memorable. The hard work of Jeremy Henderson from Raleigh First is greatly appreciated. Behind the scenes Karen DeSollar and Stephen Rutherford has added excellence to this event.

The service tomorrow (Sunday October 5) will take place at the Meymandi Hall of the Progress Energy Center in downtown Raleigh. (2 east south st.) The doors of the Center will open at 9:00am and to the Hall at 9:30am The service begins at 10:00am. Don't miss the countdown for the service! I believe the service tomorrow will be awesome!

Wednesday, October 1, 2008

Will you trust Him?

Since last Sunday - several people have asked about the clip I used at the close of my message. This video is the clip from the movie: FIREPROOF It ask the simple questions: " Do you realize that you need Him?" and "Will you trust Him with your life?"

Note: This clip is available from Outreach Ministry. I highly recommend their services!

After watching this video - If you make a spiritual decision - or - if you have any prayer request - or - any questions - please do not hesitate to contact me. I value your comments.

"Present your bodies as a living sacrifice, holy and pleasing to God; this is your spiritual worship." ( Romans 12:1)

"Be very careful, then, how you live - not as unwise but as wise, making the most of every opportunity, because the days are evil. Therefore do not be foolish, but understand what the Lord's will is. Be filled with the Holy Spirit." (Ephesians 5:15-18)

Remember - God cannot fill what He cannot have. I believe this is a trustworthy statement.