Tuesday, January 14, 2014

How pastoring has changed in the past 30 years


 
 
We are out of clichés about change or the pace of change. Sometimes we forget how much particular vocations have changed in a short time. In fact, in thirty years pastoring has changed in ways we likely would have never predicted or imagined.

 In early 1984, I began serving as a pastor for the first time. I would ultimately serve four churches as a pastor and nine churches as an interim pastor. In 1984 I was a young 28-year-old pastor without a clue. Today I am 58-years-old, and I’m still not sure I have a clue. So much has changed. So much has changed in pastoring in just thirty years. Let’s look at major ways the pastorate has changed in that time.

1.   Thirty years ago, most people in the community held the pastor in high esteem. Today most people don’t know who the pastor is, nor does the pastor hold any position of prominence in most communities.

2.   Thirty years ago, most people in the congregation held the pastor in high esteem. Though I cannot offer precise numbers, there is little doubt that church members as a rule don’t view pastors with the same esteem as they did thirty years ago. That is one major reason serving as a pastor is becoming increasingly difficult.

3.   Leadership skills are required more today than thirty years ago. Thirty years ago, I could preach sermons well and care for the congregation, and I would be deemed at least an adequate pastor. The demands and the expectations of the pastor are much higher today. Many of those demands can only be met with at least decent leadership skills.

4.   Interpersonal skills are required more today than thirty years ago.  Pastors thirty years ago could get away with some personality quirks because they were generally held in such high esteem. No more. Pastors are supposed to relate near perfectly to everyone.

5.   Outreach was accomplished by getting people to come to church services thirty years ago. That is not so today.  I remember some of the classic outreach ministries I led thirty years ago. They were all designed to get people to visit church services as a first step. Today, many barriers must be addressed in order for someone to be receptive to come to our churches.

6.   Thirty years ago, there were very few “nones.” The 2012 Pew Research project that identified 20 percent of all American adults as non-religiously affiliated has become a marker of change. Almost all people claimed some type of religious affiliation thirty years ago whether they were believers or not. It was not culturally accepted to be a “none” thirty years ago; there is no cultural stigma attached today.

7.   The Internet and social media have made pastoring much more challenging than it was thirty years ago. In many ways, it has been healthy that the pastors and their ministries are more transparent. For example, sex abuse of children in churches became a national concern when many priests and pastors were named as sexual predators. But there is no rule that someone must speak truthfully on the Internet and, specifically, in social media. Pastors today must deal with issues about them that travel fast on the Internet, even if a church member or someone else tells a complete lie.

Some things about pastoring, of course, never change. The pastor is still called to preach the Word, equip believers, and provide ministry to congregants and others. But other aspects of pastoral ministry have changed and will continue to change.

 Certainly pastors need training in Bible and theology. But, more and more, pastors need additional preparation in leadership skills, interpersonal skills, and missional realities. Thirty years ago, the church expected the pastor to be a capable preacher and caregiver. Today much more is expected.

 
BY: Thom Rainer

Monday, January 13, 2014

Its a beautiful day!

Another beautiful day in Raleigh, NC.  The weather is awesome with the sun beaming and a warm day in the low 60's. Headed out soon to play golf with a group of friends.  I have a lot to do with my busy schedule so I took time with the Lord this morning and have decided the first of this week I need to step away from the pressures of ministry and give my body a work out.  It has been raining and I am sure the course will say "stay on the cart path".  This means a lot of walking and walking in the wet conditions.

It's a beautiful day.  The Lord the Lord has made and I rejoice in it!


Sunday, January 12, 2014

Reflections from this morning message New Fitness


Today we continued in the teaching series:




Here are a few things to remember:

But in a great house there are not only vessels of gold and of silver, but also of wood and of earth; and some to honour, and some to dishonour. If a man therefore purge himself from these, he shall be a vessel unto honor, sanctified, and fit for the master’s use, and prepared unto every good work.                                                                       2 Timothy 2:20-21 (KJV)

 
For physical training is of some value, but godliness has value for all things, holding promise for both the present life and the life to come.                                                 1 Timothy 4:8

Here is one of my favorite songs that summaries my message today. Enjoy:



Saturday, January 11, 2014

Preparing for worship on January 12, 2014

Tomorrow is going to be another great day of worship at NRN! As we prepare for our worship, here is the worship set we have planned:

 
 
We draw our attention to the Lord during the five minute countdown and then welcome everyone who is there.  As we lift our voices in song we being to sing to the Lord:
 
 



Followed by a beloved hymn of faith:




And now we prepare for a time of prayer by singing..




Following a season of prayer we offer a song of thanksgiving to the Lord




Let us consider the importance of our offering to the LORD:



Now for the preaching of the Word:

 
 

When someone becomes a Christian, he becomes a brand new person inside. He is not the same anymore. A new life has begun!                                              2 Corinthians 5:17 (TLB)

Friday, January 10, 2014

Hello, my name is church


 
Hello my name is church,
I'm sure you've heard a lot about me. I have no shortage of critics. Perhaps you have heard that I am...
Boring
Shallow
Cheap
A waste of time

You've heard that I am full of:

Hypocrites
Clowns
Greedy people
The self-righteous


Maybe you have visited me before and discovered:

Horrible music
Passionless singing
Dry preaching
Rude congregants


Maybe you needed me and I was:
Too busy
Too "righteous"
Too broke
Too blind


Maybe you joined me and found I was:

Distant
Demanding
Dull
Preoccupied


Maybe you tried to serve in me but were caught off guard by:

Business meetings
Committees
Teams
Bureaucracy


Maybe you left and were surprised that nobody:

Called
Cared
Noticed
Invited you back


Perhaps your experience has driven you to:

Speak negatively of me
Swear to never come back to me

Proclaim that no one needs me
Believe you're better off without me
 
 If this is true, I have something to say to you:

I'm sorry
I was wrong
I blew it
I made a huge mistake


But remember, I never said my name was:

Perfect
Flawless
Complete
Arrived


My name is church. I welcome the:

Hypocrite
Dry
Self-righteous
Shallow


I welcome the

Sincere
Passionate
Forgiving
Selfless


I cannot shut my doors to the people who make you:

Angry
Uncomfortable
Impatient
Self-conscious


 But I would remind you that we couldn't always worship in the same room. In the Old Testament there was a division between the:
Gentile
Jew
Man
Woman


 In order for us to all worship in the same room Christ was:
Shamed
Beaten
Killed
Resurrected


 Which is far worse than being:
Bored
Uncomfortable
Embarrassed
Ignored


So why not come back to church and let all of these messed up people:

Challenge you
Sharpen you
Strengthen you
Humble you

 
I can't promise you that the people will be great. This is church. It's not:

Heaven
Paradise
Beulah Land
The Celestial city

Come back.

God wants you here.
The body needs you here.
The world needs your witness here.
You belong here.
 
Hello, my name is church.


I miss you.
I love you.
I'm sorry

Can’t wait to see you this Sunday!

 

Thursday, January 9, 2014

Let’s do a vocabulary test!


Let’s do a vocabulary test! See how well you can do on your own without reading the verse and post your score in the comments. All references are taken from the King James Version.

1. wen (Lev 2:22)

2. victuals (Mat 14:15)

3. vestry (2 Kings 10:22)

4. upbraideth (James 1:5)

5. unction (1 John 2:20)

6. trow (Luke 17:9)

7. tow (Judges 16:9)

8. surfeiting (Luke 21:34)

9. sundry (Heb 1:1)

10. suborned (Acts 6:11)

11. stomacher (Isa 3:24)

12. sop (John 13:26)

13. sod (Gen 25:29)

14. slow bellies (Titus 1:12)

15. scrip (Luke 9:3)

16. provender (Gen 24:25)

17. privy (Acts 5:2)

18. pottage (Hag 2:12)

19. peradventure (2 Timothy 2:25)

20. penury (Luke 21:4)

21. paps (Luke 11:27)

22. Osee (Romans 9:25)

23. offscouring (1 Co 4:13)

24. nitre (Pro 25:20)

25. murrain (Exodus 9:3)

26. mess (Gen 43:34)

27. meet (Mark 7:27)

28. mazzaroth (Job 38:32)

29. marishes (Eze 47:11)

30. listeth (John 3:8)

31. let (Rom 1:13)

32. kine (Gen 41:2)

33. jangling (1 Timothy 1:6)

34. inditing (Psa 45:1)

35. husbandman (Joel 1:11)

36. holpen (Psa 86:17)

37. hoary (Job 38:29)

38. heady (2 Timothy 3:4)

39. hart (Psa 42:1)

40. haply (Mark 11:13)

41. habergeon (Exo 28:32)

42. gainsay (Luke 21:15)

43. gaddest (Jer 2:36)

44. fuller (Mark 9:3)

45. flux (Acts 28:8)

46. execration (Jer 42:18)

47. euroclydon (Acts 27:14)

48. earing (Gen 45:6)

49. crisping pins (Isa 3:22)

This list came from elsewhere on the Internet but I haven’t been able to find the original source. If it’s yours please let me know and I’ll be happy to give you credit.

Wednesday, January 8, 2014

How does praying to different persons of the Trinity affect our prayers?

Tonight at 6:30 the time of Corporate Prayer resumes at NRN.  As we prepare for this time of drawing near to the Lord in prayer I thought a short primer would be a good discussion point as we prepare to pray.