Tuesday, June 14, 2016

8 Strategies for Reaching Families from your Vacation Bible School

by Hal Seed 
This is the time of the year that is prime for Vacation Bible School at local churches.  I felt this article could be helpful to give insights about looking outside the box for VBS. 





Can your Vacation Bible School do more than lead kids to Christ?


I think it can.

At New Song, we have four distinct goals for our summer Kids Camp:

We accomplish our discipleship goal by holding a great Kids Camp.

We accomplish our leadership development goal through a good team training program, coupled with the on-the-job experience gained during the week of camp.

We accomplish our inter-generational goal by recruiting teens, twenties, thirties, parents and retirees to serve together.

But how do we retain the unchurched families who attend our Kids Camp? This requires multiple capture strategies.

In my experience, churches put on a stellar VBS and just hope that the fourth goal of retaining new families from the community will take care of itself.
The truth is, most unchurched families aren’t thinking about attending your church when they enroll their kids in VBS. They’re either looking for an enriching place to send their kids during a long summer, or they are piecing together childcare while they work.

Church attendance may not be the last thing on their minds, but it’s close. Wooing the unchurched back after VBS is over will take more than a great week of programming.


Here’s the key: The majority of your unchurched VBS attendees will only return if you build a relationship with them.

8 Strategies for Reaching Families from your Vacation Bible School

Building relationships requires multiple contacts. Here are eight strategies we use to capture as many unchurched visitors as possible:

1. Greet parents every morning.

As parents arrive to drop off and pick up their children each morning, we station staff members in the lobby to casually introduce themselves and make parents feel welcome.

2. Give them an excuse to stick around.

We set up coffee carts and refreshment tables out front, so parents who want to linger can do so.

3. Give them a reason to attend your church.

We combine one of our weekend services with the final session of VBS. At this session (which, for us, is our Saturday night service), we have the children perform songs they learned during the week. Then as I get up to speak, the children are dismissed for one last small group huddle with their leaders. The kids have ice cream sandwiches and talk with their new friends about what they learned and what they liked best.

Note: Be sure to have the kids return and perform one more song at the end of the service. Otherwise, some of your unchurched parents will grab their kids after the performance and leave, and you’ll miss the opportunity for them to hear the Word of God and fully sample your service.

4. Preach a relevant message.

While the kids are with their leaders, I preach a biblical message on parenting. I want our visiting parents to know that God, the Bible, and the church can provide them with practical help. Make sure to have everyone in the service completes a Connection Card; this will help you gain contact information for your guests without making them feel singled out.

5. Exceed their expectations.   How about a free gift to each family for attending on the last night of VBS?  A small gift may bring big rewards. The author recommends a gift that is a book he has written.  I did not want to endorse this resource since I had not read it or a review.

6. Exceed their expectations again.

Immediately following this service, we hold a party in the lobby. The tables full of finger-food slow our guests down and entice them to munch and mingle. We make sure plenty of staff and volunteers are there, casually introducing themselves.

7. Add them to your newcomers list.

Since these guests have filled out a Connection Card during the service, we are able to send them our usual first-time guest letter and follow-up with them like we would our other weekend guests. Being part of our database means they’ll begin receiving weekly emails from me about what God is up to in our church—another step in helping them feel like part of the church family.

8. Provide a reason to return.

We offer an incentive to return a second time by scheduling a family-oriented event a few weeks after VBS ends. Then we’ll promote the event during the service and send them a personal invitation ten days ahead of time.

None of these steps happen by accident. They require thought, prayer and planning. VBS is such a fruitful harvesting opportunity for us that we ask our whole staff to participate in some way.

We try to refine this process every year, and every time we do, we see a higher percentage of unchurched families return, give their lives to Christ and join the church.

New Families Begin Attending Over Time

A few guests begin attending the very next week. A larger number return two to four weeks later. Most unchurched people can’t fathom attending church every weekend, so this pattern is normal. Still others come the first time I do a series on family, marriage or parenting, which can be months later.

This spring, a family walked up to my wife and said, “We came for VBS last summer. Now we’re back for church!” It took them nine months, but today they are now fully engaged Christ-followers, growing in their faith and looking forward to inviting friends to this year’s VBS.

The Principle: Thinking on Two Levels

Dozens of children will raise their hands and pray a prayer at the end of a good week of camp, but that shouldn’t be the only goal. Jesus desires fruit that remains.

Therefore, whenever possible, build systems that attract people to not just attend your programs but to become fully participating members of your church.

To do this, you’ll need to think on two levels about your outreach events. Level one is coordinating and presenting the event itself; level two is capturing the unchurched who attend the event.

You will change the paradigm and approach of all your church’s event-planning if you measure an event’s success not by how many pre-believers show up for it, but by how many of them become regularly attending members of your church six to nine months afterward.




Dr. Hal Seed is founding pastor of New Song Community Church in Oceanside, CA. In the past five years, New Song has seen over 5,000 people make first time decisions for Christ. Hal is the author of Future History: Understanding the Book of Daniel and End Times Prophecy, Jonah: Responding to God, I Love Sundays, The Bible Questions,  as well as The God Questions. Each of these books is being used in small groups and church-wide campaigns around the country.

Monday, June 13, 2016

5 Things You Need to Know About the Gorilla Shooting at the Cincinnati Zoo


When human life is called into question…

1. The Tragedy
On Saturday, May 28, a four-year-old boy climbed a railing, squeezed through a fence and fell into the mote within the gorilla enclosure at the Cincinnati Zoo. (Video below.)



2. Imminent Danger
Once the boy was inside the enclosure, a 450-pound gorilla named Harambe grabbed him and, at times, violently dragged him around in the water while the mother yelled to him and bystanders stood in horror of the situation.


3. The Decision
Zoo officials responded quickly and took the gorilla down with a rifle shot. Zoo director Thane Maynard said, “We are heartbroken about losing Harambe, but a child’s life was in danger and a quick decision had to be made.” Tranquilizers were not an option in this decision due to the time it takes for the drugs to take effect in a large animal like Harambe.


4. Cue Internet Outrage

The people of the Internet responded in anger—blaming the child’s mother for negligence, the zoo for choosing to kill instead of tranquilizing and, in disgust, some picketed the zoo to make a statement.


View image on Twitter

















Protestors outside Cincinnati Zoo, demanding action for#Harambe, Gorilla shot after child fell in enclosure. @WLWT   6:08 PM - 29 May 2016

5. Bottom Line

Human beings are made in the image of God, above the animals, and are to be valued in such a way. We are to care for and about all life, and it’s a sad thing to take down a beautiful animal, but human life will always hold a higher distinction. These parents are able to hold their son in their arms today because of the quick action of zoo officials.

As for the Internet’s outrage? Sadly, this is just another example of society’s lack of regard for the sanctity of life. It’s also a bold reminder that we need to fight for the value of human life—in all ways possible. The significance of this event isn’t just about the life of a boy over the life of a gorilla—it’s about all human life being held in high regard and protected for its intrinsic value to our Creator.

As Matt Walsh wrote on The Blaze, “While the media obsesses over an ape and thousands of people cry that they will ”miss” a zoo animal they didn’t even know existed on Friday, there will be another 125,000 abortions. On a daily basis, a group of people larger than the population of Provo, Utah, are systematically exterminated. None of them are given a name, and there will be no candlelight vigils for any of these victims.”


*Side note: Many people are criticizing the mom for negligence, but if you have small children, I think you know it only takes a second for something like this to happen. Please join us in prayer for the family and for zoo officials.




Brian Orme is a writer and editor from Ohio. He works with creative and innovative people to discover the top stories, resources and trends to equip and inspire the Church.

Sunday, June 12, 2016

Are you hungry for God?

The General Conference of the Wesleyan Church took place this past week.  A high light for me was the acceptance speech of Dr. Jo Anne Lyon as she was elected as General Superintendent Emeritus of the Wesleyan Church.  Please watch this brief acceptance speech.



Saturday, June 11, 2016

There Is Nothing Too Big for God

BY RICK WARREN
“Now all glory to God, who is able, through his mighty power at work within us, to accomplish infinitely more than we might ask or think” (Ephesians 3:20 NLT, second edition).
God is a competent Father. He can handle any problem you give him. Nothing is beyond his ability or his resources. No request is too big or too small.


A woman once asked me, “Rick, is it really okay for me to talk to God about the small things in my life? Shouldn’t I just talk to him about the big problems that I have?” I looked at her and said, “Ma’am, can you imagine any problem that you would have that God would consider big? It’s all small. There is nothing too big for God. It’s all small stuff.”
Nothing is beyond his ability. He is a competent Father.
That is so important, because today we have an epidemic in our nation of incompetent fathers. I don’t know if you’ve noticed that all the dads on TV are doofuses. There are no competent dads on TV anymore. There’s no “Father Knows Best.” Instead, we have “Family Guy” and Homer Simpson. Today’s dad is the butt of the joke, and everybody else is in on the joke except dad. That’s the kind of father that society is promoting today.
It’s like the kid who was bragging to another little kid, “My dad could beat up your dad!” The other kid said, “Big deal! So can my mom!”
But nobody can beat up your heavenly Father. “Nothing is impossible with God.” I cut the word “impossible” out of my dictionary because it’s not in God’s vocabulary. Nothing is impossible with God.
It’s amazing to me when my kids were little what they expected me to fix. My kids expected me to know all, to fix anything, and to afford everything. As they grew up, they learned that their father had limited knowledge, limited energy, limited resources, limited skills — limited everything.
But your heavenly Father really can do anything. Ephesians 3:20 says, “Now all glory to God, who is able, through his mighty power at work within us, to accomplish infinitely more than we might ask or think” (NLT, second edition).
I’m a big dreamer. I’ve got a lot of big dreams in my life. I’ve seen God fulfill a lot of big dreams in my life. God says, “I don’t care how much you dream, Rick; I can still top it. I’m bigger. I can dream bigger than you can dream.”
Yesterday’s impossibilities are today’s miracles. God specializes in the impossible! He is a competent Father.

Friday, June 10, 2016

God Is Close


BY RICK WARREN
“The Lord is near to all who call on him”   (Psalm 145:18a NIV).

God is not as far away as the furthest star. He’s as close as your next heartbeat. He’s right there with you every moment. The Bible says in Acts 17:27, “God did this so that they would seek him and perhaps reach out for him and find him, though he is not far from any one of us” (NIV).

You might feel like God is a million miles away. But your feelings and reality don’t always match — we all know that’s true. The truth is, God is with you right now.

Because he is a close Father:

God is never too busy for you. That’s how close he is. That’s the kind of love that he has for you. Psalm 145:18 says, “The Lord is near to all who call on him. . .” (NIV). 

Every time you call, God is near. He thinks about you a lot more than you think about him. He thought about you before you were born. He thinks about you every moment of every day. The truth is, too many times we get too busy for God. But he never gets too busy for us.

God loves to meet your needs. 

He doesn’t do it begrudgingly. He loves it! Mathew 7:11 says, “If you ... know how to give good gifts to your children, how much more will your Father in heaven give good gifts to those who ask him” (NIV). You can enjoy the fact that God loves giving good gifts to you.

God is sympathetic to your hurts. 

Some of you are going through something tough this week, and you need this verse: “The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit”         (Psalm 34:18 NIV).



God is close to you, and he understands what you’re going through Turn to him – he’s right there waiting for you

Thursday, June 9, 2016

Sharron - I LOVE YOU! Today we celebrate!

Today Sharron and I celebrate our 38th wedding anniversary.

It is a unique time in our life as we have recently sold our home in Raleigh and departed from a loving church and dear friends to step into God's Waiting Room.  We did not wait very long before we saw the faithfulness of our Great God!

We place our home for sale and within 24 hours had several offers of purchase. We accepted a cash offer and went ot closing exactly 2 weeks for the list date. The new owners allowed us to rent our home back for two months and we vacated the house before the end of May.  The biggest transition point we face at this moment is moving from a  2,500 sq ft house to a room; but we are very thankful for our daughter and son in law that have opened their guest room to us.


We are extremely excited about the open door of ministry God has prepared for us.  In mid July I will begin my ministry as Lead Pastor of Gastonia First Wesleyan Church in Gastonia, NC. We plan to relocate to Gastonia the first week of August.

I want to take this opportunity to say thank you to my loving wife Sharron, for her commitment to God and to me.  When we stood before Pastor Forbis Kivett and a large group of family and friends on that summer day in 1978 we could have never imagined the journey of life and ministry God had prepared for us!  God has blessed us with two beautiful and talented daughters, brought 2 men into our lives that love our daughters and call me Dad. Josh and Stephanie told us of our first grandchild and it changed our lives. We love Alyse, Breeley and Cammie and are having a time of our life living in their home during our transition. Danielle and Jessie have added Jayden and Jordan to our lives and we love them deeply and marvel at God's plan for us.
We will now live within an hour of all our immediate family. This is incredible to us.

The Scripture is so trustworthy and being completed in my life:

"Find a good spouse, you find a good life— and even more: the favor of God!"                                                                                                          Proverbs 18:22


Wednesday, June 8, 2016

Congratulations to Dr. Wayne Schmidt - General Superintendent of the Wesleyan Church!

I am so happy and excited to congratulate my friend Dr. Wayne Schmidt as the newly elected General Superintendent of the Wesleyan Church! His acceptance speech presented on Monday June 6, 2016.