Tuesday, July 7, 2015

Seven Key Reasons Your Church Attendance May Be Declining

                                                                         by Thom Rainer 


My five-year old grandson asked me how old I was. When I told him I would turn 60 in a few weeks, he responded: “I didn’t realize people got that old.”
Indeed, in 60 years, like any of us who have lived a few years, I have seen change, lots of change. And I am seeing change in local congregations faster than any time in my lifetime. One of the most disheartening changes I am seeing is the declining attendance in a majority of churches. I am asked repeatedly to diagnose and help with these challenges.


Though addressing the issue of declining attendance cannot be covered in a brief blog post, I hope it will be helpful to share some high-level perspectives. See if any of these seven reasons apply to your church.


1.   “Cultural Christians” no longer see the need to attend church. “Cultural Christian” is really an oxymoron. I refer here to those men and women who once attended church for social, political, or business reasons. Most of them no longer feel it is necessary to be in church to be a regarded citizen in the community.


2.   Church members are attending less frequently. I have noted in other articles how I see this development as potentially the greatest contributor to attendance decline. Three decades ago, a very active church member attended three times a week. Today we call those who attend three times a month an active church member.


3.   Expectations are lower for church members. One of the reasons church members attend less frequently is that very little is expected of them in many churches. If we expect little of our members, that is exactly what we will get.


4.   Insufficient emphasis on groups. This reality may be one of the most neglected areas of church life. Groups of all kinds – home groups, small groups, Sunday school classes, life groups, and others – are key to assimilation and greater commitment. The importance of groups must begin with the pastor and all other key leaders in the church.


5.   Inward focus. In too many churches, the emphasis is on “me, myself, and I.” Some members are more concerned about the temperature in the worship center than the eternal destinations of their neighbors. The “me-focused” church is on its way to decline.


6.   No clearly defined process of discipleship. Eric Geiger and I reported on this issue in our book, Simple Church. Growing churches are much more likely to have a clearly grasped and implemented process of discipleship than declining churches.


7.   No strategic plans for multi-venues or multi-campuses. As I noted in my article Monday, the trend of multi-venue and multi-campus churches may be the most significant in church practices in the past three decades. Even smaller churches are now planning for more than one site or venue. Those churches not making such plans are more likely to be declining.


Decline in church attendance cannot be defined in seven simple statements. But these reasons are at least broad explanations of what is taking place in many of our congregations. I would love to get feedback from you on these issues

Monday, July 6, 2015

A season of spiritual growth

“And I am certain that God, who began the good work within you, will continue his work until it is finally finished on the day when Christ Jesus returns.” (Philippians 1:6 NLT, second edition)

It takes years for us to grow to adulthood, and it takes a full season for fruit to mature and ripen. The same is true for the fruit of the Spirit. The development of Christ-like character cannot be rushed. Spiritual growth, like physical growth, takes time.




Billy Graham associate Lane Adams once compared the process of spiritual growth to the strategy the Allies used in World War II to liberate islands in the South Pacific. First they would “soften up” an island, weakening the resistance by shelling the enemy strongholds with bombs from offshore ships.

Next, a small group of Marines would invade the island and establish a “beachhead”—a tiny fragment of the island that they could control. Once the beachhead was secured, they would begin the long process of liberating the rest of the island, one bit of territory at a time.

Eventually the entire island would be brought under control, but not without some costly battles.

Adams drew this parallel: Before Christ invades our lives at conversion, he sometimes has to “soften us up” by allowing problems we can’t handle. While some open their lives to Christ the first time he knocks on the door, most of us are resistant and defensive. Our pre-conversion experience is Jesus saying, “Behold! I stand at the door and bomb!”

The moment you open yourself to Christ, God gets a “beachhead” in your life. You may think you have surrendered all your life to him, but the truth is, there’s a lot to your life that you aren’t even aware of. You can only give God as much of you as you understand at that moment. That’s okay.


Once Christ is given a beachhead, he begins the campaign to take over more and more territory until all of your life is completely his. There will be struggles and battles, but the outcome will never be in doubt.

 God has promised that “he who began a good work in you will carry it on to completion until the day of Christ Jesus” (Philippians 1:6 NIV).

Sunday, July 5, 2015

Message for July 5 2015 - Writing my life story - I decided to STOP

INTRO: Regret, remorse, pages and pages of life wasted and gone. But your story isn't finished yet. There's still time for edits and cuts. But before you start doing the right things, sometimes you need to stop doing the wrong things. 

My story, I decided to stop.

Today, we're in the second week of a four-week series of messages called, "Writing my Life Story - My Story". If you missed last week, let me catch you up. We talked about what you need to START in your life. 

Last Sunday I asked the question: WHAT DOES GOD WANT YOU TO WANT?

5 or 10 years from now—what story does God want you to tell?
Financial Freedom—we were in debt.
Right Priorities—was obsessed with work.
Spiritual Family—Xian’s but not doing anything.
Better physical shape—used to weigh- How you feel – How others see you.


Based on what you believe God wants you to want…

The reality is we cannot change what's already been written about our story. But the good news is our future story is yet to be written. And in this series we're talking about the decisions that we make that will write our future story.


How do we live the story we want to tell?  
Live a story worth telling?
Let God help write your story!


Let us fix our eyes on Jesus, the author and perfecter of our faith…                                                              Hebrews 12:2


The decisions that you make TODAY determine the stories that you TELL tomorrow.

Decide today the story you want to tell tomorrow.          


Direction not intention determines destination.                – Andy Stanley


Today I ask:  What is God telling you to STOP in your life?


Example: Moses (Exodus 18)


1. You don't know what you're MISSING if you DON’T.      
17 “It’s not right!” his father-in-law exclaimed. 18 “You’re going to wear yourself out—and if you do, what will happen to the people? Moses, this job is too heavy a burden for you to try to handle all by yourself. 19-20 Now listen, and let me give you a word of advice, and God will bless you: Be these people’s lawyer—their representative before God—bringing him their questions to decide; you will tell them his decisions, teaching them God’s laws, and showing them the principles of godly living. 21 “Find some capable, godly, honest men who hate bribes, and appoint them as judges, one judge for each 1000 people; he in turn will have ten judges under him, each in charge of a hundred; and under each of them will be two judges, each responsible for the affairs of fifty people; and each of these will have five judges beneath him, each counseling ten persons. 22 Let these men be responsible to serve the people with justice at all times. Anything that is too important or complicated can be brought to you. But the smaller matters they can take care of themselves. That way it will be easier for you because you will share the burden with them. 23 If you follow this advice, and if the Lord agrees, you will be able to endure the pressures, and there will be peace and harmony in the camp.”                              Exodus 18: 17-23


Play out the story in your mind – what if Moses did NOT stop his way and ignore the advice of his father in law?


Think about it – What is the basis of your faith?  Are you trusting in so many other things instead of God? Stop trusting in other things – Keep firmly grounded on the Lord!


2. You don't know what it will COST you if you DON’T.

24 Moses listened to his father-in-law’s advice and followed this suggestion.                                                        Exodus 18:24


Let me give some hypothetical situations for you:

·       Keep being rude to people and demand your own way. Be judgmental about others and see your friends slowly move away from you. 


·       Keep struggling on the yo-yo diets and decide to give in to human nature and eat the entire pint of ice cream (half-gallon). Forget about eating right – and exercising every day….


·       Keep breaking the financial rules you know you should follow – don’t save for the unforeseen need (crisis) in the days ahead – don’t budget – don’t exercise faith and give to the church (Which Christ loved so much he gave his life for it.) Keep giving God a poor pitiful “tip” on Sundays and not take one Sunday and give extravagantly to the Lord! When is the last time you gave so much for others that it brought joy to your heart?


·       How about some of those habits that culture has used to squeeze you into its mold?  How about a break from Facebook and call three true friends this week and just begin by saying ‘I have been thinking about you today…. “  


3. What do you need to STOP to tell the story GOD wants you to tell?


Therefore we also, since we are surrounded by so great a cloud of witnesses, let us lay aside every weight, and the sin which so easily ensnares us, and let us run with endurance the race that is set before us, looking unto Jesus, the author and finisher of our faith, who for the joy that was set before Him endured the cross, despising the shame, and has sat down at the right hand of the throne of God.                   Hebrews 12:1-2


PRAYER:  Heavenly Father, forgive me of all of my sins. Jesus, be the Savior and the Lord of my life. God, my story is no longer my story; I want it to be your story. Fill me with your Spirit so I could live the story you want me to tell. Thank you for new life, today I give you mine. My life is yours. Someday I will stand with the cloud of witnesses and sing an Endless Hallelujah to you my King.  In Jesus' name I pray.


Saturday, July 4, 2015

Preparing for worship on July 5, 2015 at NRN!



Tomorrow we gather for worship at North Raleigh Church of the Nazarene.    Last week a number of people decided to START as God spoke to their hearts. Tomorrow we continue in the current teaching series.  Plan now to join us and prepare your hearts for worship by enjoying the planned worship set below:

















We now express our worship to God for His wonderful gift of salvation found through His Son - Our Savior - Jesus Christ! 

Give thanks unto God with a grateful heart.








 
Time to worship the Lord by bringing our tithes and offerings to the Lord.  Let us be reminded on this holiday weekend the truth emblazoned unto our currency:  IN GOD WE TRUST! 

Now. let us exercise our faith by presenting to God a sacrificial gift to help bring our weekly need based budget in line.  Why would we allow our ministry to suffer when a we could make a gift to meet our budget need in order to stay on mission! 

We sing as we present our financial gifts to the Lord!






Friday, July 3, 2015

Tomorrow is Independence Day 2015 - Let us celebrate the birth of American independence!

Variously known as the Fourth of July and Independence Day, July 4th has been a federal holiday in the United States since 1941, but the tradition of Independence Day celebrations goes back to the 18th century and the American Revolution (1775-83). 

In June 1776, representatives of the 13 colonies then fighting in the revolutionary struggle weighed a resolution that would declare their independence from Great Britain. On July 2nd, the Continental Congress voted in favor of independence, and two days later its delegates adopted the Declaration of Independence, a historic document drafted by Thomas Jefferson. 

From 1776 until the present day, July 4th has been celebrated as the birth of American independence, with typical festivities ranging from fireworks, parades and concerts to more casual family gatherings and barbecues.


Thursday, July 2, 2015

​Response to 2015 Supreme Court ruling on same-sex marriage

Have you heard the recent decision by the Supreme Court?


Here is the response from the Church of the Nazarene:


Societies across the globe are engaged in conversations to redefine marriage. Media debates, election-day balloting, and governmental court rulings have provided the platform for this redefinition. We believe a biblical view of marriage involves a monogamous, covenantal relationship between a man and a woman. Jesus said, “At the beginning the Creator ‘made them male and female,’ and said, ‘For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh’? So they are no longer two, but one flesh. Therefore what God has joined together, let no one separate” (Matthew 19:4-6NIV).

Today the United States Supreme Court, in the 5-4 decision of Obergefell v. Hodges, legalized same-sex marriage nationwide. We remind our people that while the civil law of yet another country has changed, divine truth has not changed. We will learn how this civil definition functions within the context of our constitutional and religious freedoms. 

Our commitment to the orthodox biblical Christian faith remains the same. We continue to call Nazarenes around the world to a life of holiness, characterized by holy love and expressed through the most rigorous and consistent lifestyle of sexual purity. We further call our people to a generosity and graciousness of spirit that extends kindness to those who do not share our belief. We pray that God will help us be examples of His truth in a world that needs to see God’s love demonstrated in word and deed more than ever.


Jerry D. Porter
J. K. Warrick
Eugénio R. Duarte
David W. Graves
David A. Busic 
Gustavo A. Crocker
Board of General Superintendents
Church of the Nazarene








The Statement from the Wesleyan Church:





The US Supreme Court has issued a ruling in the same-sex marriage cases that are grouped as "Obergefell v. Hodges." The central issue, whether every state must allow same-sex couples to be legally married, has been answered in the affirmative.

The Wesleyan Church has long held and continues to believe that marriage is an institution created by God and must be between one man and one woman. As recently as 2004, the General Conference voted unanimously by ballot vote, affirming the Church's position that marriage is between one man and one woman. Other, even more recent affirming actions have been taken.
The United States and western culture have been undergoing a seismic shift in their perception of same-sex marriage in recent years. The church must be keenly aware of the cultural context for ministry and be willing to change, adapt, and stay relevant in matters of non-essentials. However, it must never sacrifice or compromise clear biblical truth. The church will always be a prophetic, counter-cultural voice offering Jesus Christ and his way of life and hope in exchange for the ways of the world.
The Wesleyan Church, out of love for others, works to see God's word and his way more broadly understood and accepted in the world. We believe that God's way is better for anyone and will result in greater peace, love, joy, and hope in this life and in the life to come. However, we do not seek to have our view imposed on others, but merely be able to practice our faith with consistency and provide service to society in a way that reflects our deeply held beliefs. In the United States, the first amendment of the Constitution gives protection to religions and their adherents as they teach their beliefs, such as the conviction that same-sex marriage is not to be condoned. Even the majority opinion in the Supreme Court ruling specifically affirms those rights and those protections. 
In the wake of the ruling, we continue to urge public officials and courts to uphold public justice and respect religious exercise and conscience for individuals or organizations who find themselves in conflict with legal requirements.
The church is compelled by the love of Christ to care about all people. When we function and minister, peaceably, in the context of our religious convictions that we believe are healthy, true, and according to God's plan, it is not just for ourselves. It is out of caring for everyone, including generations not yet born. When our stance becomes less popular in a society that is, in some ways, moving farther from God, love does not let us withdraw. It is out of love toward those who may think us enemies that we stand for what we genuinely believe is best for all.



Here is the statement from Franklin Graham:


Wednesday, July 1, 2015

Why Doesn’t God Answer?


On busy days, I often utter quick prayers for needs of the moment. Because God is our provision and He said that we have not because we ask not, I ask, even for little things. I’ve asked Him for help with an assignment for assistance with a flat tire, and for patience with a co-worker.

 God has graciously answered many on-the run prayers, even for little things like a parking place near the mall.
However, other times it seems God doesn’t hear my petitions. In fact, sometimes it feels like prayers for significant things are blocked from getting through. In one particularly dark time, even my cries to see my own sin echoed without response. Where is God in such times?
Recently, while reading the Gospel of John, I think I gained insight into some of those seemingly blocked prayers. In John 6, Jesus fed the multitude with five loaves and two fish. 
After the people saw the miraculous sign that Jesus did, they began to say, ‘Surely this is the Prophet who is to come into the world.’  Jesus, knowing that they intended to come and make him king by force, withdrew again to a mountain by himself.” (John 6:14-15, NIV)
When the crowd finally recognized Jesus as the One sent from God, and the people were eager to follow Him, why did He leave? Why did He go to the mountain?
Could it be because the crowd had their own agenda? They weren’t ready to follow. They wanted to bring about their own plans to make Jesus king. Even though He is King of kings, an earthly throne was not God’s plan.
Jesus didn’t rebuke the crowd or explain how they were wrong. When He perceived their plans, He simply withdrew. He removed Himself.
I don’t remember all my prayers that seemed to ricochet off the ceiling, but I know some were during a season when I was drowning in self-pity. I wanted Him take away my pain, and to change the people around me. Jesus had met my needs before, and, like the crowd, I wanted Him to meet my present need. I had my own agenda rather than seeking the will of God. Could that be why my prayers weren’t answered? Does Jesus withdraw when we try to use Him for our purposes?
Is it any wonder my prayers sometimes seem to return empty? I know His Spirit is still with me, that He lives in my heart, and that He will never leave or forsake me. However, I also know that it feels like He withdraws.
We see the rest of the story a few verses later. The disciples had been rowing furiously but were making no headway on the Sea of Galilee. They were stranded in the middle of the stormy sea. Jesus approached, walking on the water and they were afraid until Jesus assured them it was He. 
“They were willing therefore to receive Him into the boat; and immediately the boat was at the land to which they were going.” (John 6:21, NASB)
Once they received Jesus into the boat—into their sphere, their area of responsibility and struggle—they were immediately at their destination. They no longer had to fight to reach their goal.
When I’m trying hard to make something happen—even by prayer—it is often like rowing in the middle of a storm-tossed sea. Instead of rowing with all my might, do I need to stop my frantic efforts and look for Jesus? Could it be that the only thing I need to do in order to reach my destination is to receive Him into my boat?
I believe that when I humbly receive Him, I can expect to reach my destination—through His power, without striving, and with Jesus by my side. For those times when I do not immediately reach the goal, Jesus will stay with me, and I can rest in Him and draw from Him for the journey.
Help me, Lord, to wait on You. Teach me to welcome and follow You in all circumstances of my life, instead of expecting You to fulfill my agenda.

Kay W. Camenisch is the author of Uprooting Anger: Destroying the Monster Within. She has been published in The Upper Room and The LookoutContemporary Drama has published one of her plays, and she is a regular contributor to a newspaper column. Kay is also a pastor’s wife, mother, and grandmother. She has worked closely in ministry with her husband, including in local churches, as missionaries in Brazil, working with a church school, training young adults to mentor troubled youth, and establishing and directing a ranch for troubled young men. Visit Kay's Website.

Join us this evening at 6:30 for our weekly Prayer Encounter at North Raleigh Church of the Nazarene!