Friday, February 14, 2014

Valentine Freebies for 2014 ...


With Valentine’s Day falling on a Friday in 2014, I imagine that more couples than ever will be celebrating. Maybe that’s why the National Retail Federation is estimating that Americans will spend, on average, about $134 on candy, cards, gifts, dinner, and more, up slightly from about $131 last year. Total Valentine’s Day spending is expected to reach $17.3 billion.

“Valentine’s Day will continue to be a popular gift-giving event, even when consumers are frugal with their budgets. This is the one day of the year when millions find a way to show their loved ones they care,” said NRF President and CEO Matthew Shay.

Even so, I’ve tracked down some freebies in our local area that you can enjoy today:

Free Doughnuts at Krispy Kreme

Purchase 12 doughnuts and get a dozen Valentine Cards each good for a FREE doughnut of any variety. Offer ends February 14. Limit two per customer at participating locations, and while supplies last.
 
 
 
 

Free Lindt Chocolate Treat

Through Feb. 14, visit any Lindt Chocolate Shop to receive a free Lindt Hello Strawberry Cheesecake chocolate stick. Online orders will include this free gift, too.
 
 
 
Kiss for Free Food

Qdoba is offering a love-filled offer that is quite appropriate for Valentine's Day. Couples who kiss when they place their order for a queso entree will get one of their entrees for free.
 

 


Free Lobster Tail

On Feb. 13 and 14, Whole Foods Market will be having a surf and turf special to help your date night sizzle! When you buy a dry-aged steak, you will get a lobster tail free—a $10 value.

Thursday, February 13, 2014

Celebrating the anniversary of my birth

Today I celebrate the anniversary of my birth.
 
 
As Sharron and I re-connected with close friends this week we first saw Pat who asked: "How old are you?"  and then welcomed by Jay who asked "How old are you?" 
 
Here is a hint.  I was born on a Sunday morning - February 13th.  These are some important events and facts about the year I was born:
 
In this year -  consumerism takes off in a big way with the sale of some 7.9 million cars in the US with 7 out of 10 families now owning a motor car, and new laws were put in place requiring seat belts to be installed on all new cars.  
Ø The first McDonalds was erected this year and more fast foods and TV dinners are appearing including fish fingers.
Ø The first cans of Coca-Cola are sold up till then it had only been sold in bottles.
Ø Rock and Roll music continues to grow in popularity with more idols including Elvis Presley, Bill Haley and the Comets, Chuck Berry and The Platters, and young men's fashion matches the times with pink shirts and charcoal grey suits.
Ø Disneyland opens in California.
Ø "The Mickey Mouse Club" debuts on ABC
  
Ø 'In God We Trust' is added to all US paper currency
Ø Rosa Parks arrest in Montgomery Alabama sets the American Civil Rights Movement in Motion.
Ø Average Cost of new house:  $10.950.00 
 
Ø Average Monthly Rent:  $87.00

Ø Average Yearly Wages:  $4.130.00
 
Ø Minimum Hourly Rate:  $1.00 
 
Here are some early pictures from the Polaroid camera:
 
 
 


OKAY:           The year of my physical birth was 1955.

Born between Abraham Lincoln's birthday and Valentine's Day has always been a day of fun!  Sharron is the love of my life.  My children and their families are the joys on my heart.    I am a blessed man.  The greatest gift ever given to me was the gift of forgiveness and salvation through Jesus Christ my Lord!  I pray every day to bring my life into alignment with God's will and purpose for me. Jesus has made all things new! 

This has been a wonderful day as over 120 people have wished me a Happy Birthday via Facebook!  Wow!   Here is my favorite pictures of the day:


 
 

 
Today I begin the first day of my journey through age 59.

 
 


Wednesday, February 12, 2014

Ways to Pray for Pastor Rick on His Sabbatical


              


1To experience a genuine sabbatical rest – physical and spiritual renewal.

Leviticus 25:4 But in the seventh year the land is to have a year of sabbath rest,

a sabbath to the LORD.

2To reflect personally on what God has done, is doing, and wants to do in and

through him.

 

Philippians 2:13 for it is God who works in you to will and to act in order to

fulfill his good purpose.

3To gain a new perspective on what the Lord is doing in his Church.

John 4:35 I tell you, open your eyes and look at the fields! They are ripe for

harvest.

4To capture a fresh vision and passion of what God has for North Raleigh Church of the Nazarene!

Acts 11:5 “I was in the city of Joppa praying, and in a trance I saw a vision.”

5To cultivate his leadership skills.

Romans 12:6, 8 We have different gifts, according to the grace given to each

of us. If your gift is . . . to lead, do it diligently. . . .

6To write meaningfully about practicing the presence of God.

John 15:4 [Jesus speaking] Remain in me, as I also remain in you.

7To return with a clear sense of mission and renewed energy to accomplish it.

Matthew 28:19 Therefore go and make disciples of all nations. . . .

 
For North Raleigh Church of the Nazarene: May we continue to carry out faithfully with joy and hope the ministry to which we are called – to call people to a whole hearted relationship with Jesus Christ.  Let us invite people to church and speak with excitement about what God is doing at our church.  Speak about  it on Facebook, tell your friends how great God is and invite them to church.

 

For Pastor Rick: May the Word of God encourage him. May the strength of God equip him. May the Spirit of God empower him. May the wisdom of God instruct him. May the hand of God direct him. May the shield of God defend him and bring him safely back to us.

Tuesday, February 11, 2014

What does a pastor do?


 
When our daughters were young Sharron and I were faced with the question: “is Santa real?”  In my head, I quickly reviewed all thing things a parent might say either for or against Santa Claus.  I paused, and replied, “of course he was. Santa’s real name was Nicholas.  He lived in the fourth century and was such a great person that we still remember his generosity to this day.”  I went on to tell the story, and then concluded, “and you know what son—he was a pastor!”  My son’s eyes got real big at that point.  Until that time, I don’t think it impressed him all that much that I was a pastor.

Then we told them the story of Valentine and said that he too was a pastor.  I went on about St. Patrick and said that he was also a pastor.  Then I told him the story of Martin Luther King, Jr. and said that even he was a pastor.  As I elaborated on each, he muttered a “really daddy” after each example and I could see that his esteem for my own calling was going through the roof!

Some time ago, I heard a story about three grade school boys in Nashville who were waiting at the bus stop for school.  On one particular morning they got bragging about their dads and how important they were.   The first boy said, “My dad scribbles a few words on a piece of paper.  He calls it a poem. They give him a hundred dollars.”  The second boy then said, “why that’s nothing.  My dad scribbles a few words on a piece of paper. He calls it a song. They give him hundreds of dollars.”  At this, the third boy looked intimidated, until, in a moment of insight, he bragged, “I’ve got you both beat.  My daddy scribbles a few words on a piece of paper. He calls it a sermon. And it takes twenty people to collect all the money!”

Well, pastors do more than scribble a few words on a piece of paper.  According to the New Testament, their job is to be spiritual shepherds.  In the book of Acts, Paul spoke to the people who would take his place as leaders in the Ephesian church and admonished them to “keep watch over. . . all the flock of which the Holy Spirit has made you overseers.  Be shepherds of the church of God” (Acts 20.28, NIV).

In the New Testament, the controlling metaphor for how we are to think about pastors is the shepherd metaphor.  A pastor is a shepherd.   Jesus is the Chief Shepherd of the church.  Pastors are under-shepherds. Leaders of the church are not primarily CEO’s, therapists, motivational speakers, or social activists; they are shepherds.

So what does a shepherd do?    Think basic.  Think sheep.   A shepherd of a flock of sheep does six things.  He gathers the flock.  That is the first thing.  You can’t be a shepherd if you don’t have a flock.  Second, he knows his flock.  Jesus said a good shepherd knows his sheep by name.   Third, he leads the flock to green pastures so that the sheep may thrive.  Fourth, the shepherd guards the flock from predators and other dangers.  Fifth, the shepherd feeds the flock.  He makes sure they are well nourished.  Finally, the best shepherds care so much for the sheep that they will even sacrifice their lives for the flock.

While we don’t see many shepherds today in our cities, they still exist all over the world.  In Biblical times they had a prominent role in both the Old Testament and the New Testament.  Perhaps that is why both the leaders of Israel and the leaders of the church were thought of as shepherds.

In the church, a shepherd is one who cares for the souls of people who are part of the congregation (or flock).  A pastor-shepherd does this by means of the Word, prayer, the sacraments and spiritual discipline, so that people trust, love and follow Christ—conforming to his likeness and engaging in his ministry.  Ideally pastor-shepherds work as part of a pastoral team.

I like to describe the role of a pastor in terms of six Gs.   What does a pastor do?

1          First, pastors gather the flock.  A pastor does this by prayer, evangelism, good works, missions, and creating a missional mindset in the congregation.  You can’t lead a flock if you don’t first gather a flock.   Gathering is not a one-time, but an on-going activity.

2          Second, pastors must get to know the flock.   This involves spending time with people.  You learn about who they are and where they are at spiritually.   Jesus said that sheep follow a shepherd because they know his voice (John 10.4).  As we get to know our congregation, it will help us preach and teach to them in a way that connects with their lives.

3          Third, pastors guide the flock.  This involves individual guidance—where we are actually shepherding people.  But it also involves corporate guidance—where we guide the flock to a good place as a whole.

 4         Fourth, pastors guard the flock.   Paul warned that there would be savage wolves who would seek to destroy the flock.   For that reason, shepherds must not only watch over their own lives, but also guard the flock of God.  You guard through prayer, teaching, pastoral oversight and discipline.

5          Fifth, pastors give food to the flock.  That is, they make sure that the congregation is  well fed with a well-balanced diet.  He expounds the Word and proclaims the gospel. Paul himself said that while he lived in Ephesus that he did not hesitate to proclaim the whole will of God.

6          Sixth, pastors are to give their lives for their flocks.  These days, I hear few people talking about the sacrificial nature of pastoral ministry.  Jesus said that the good shepherd lays down his life for the sheep (John 10.11). Anyone who pastors long and well will know the cost of pastoral ministry.  We learn this from experience. But we also learn it from the one who himself laid down his life for his sheep.

The pastoral calling is set forth clearly in 1 Peter.  There we read Peter’s charge to a group of overseers.  He wrote, “Be shepherds of God’s flock that is under your care, serving as overseers—not because you must, but because you are willing, as God wants you to be:  not greedy for money, but eager to serve; not lording it over those entrusted to you, but being examples to the flock.  And when the Chief Shepherd appears, you will receive the crown of glory that will never fade away” (1 Peter 5.2-4, NIV).

There is, however, one short coming with the shepherd metaphor.  It’s that the Bible offers more than one metaphor to guide pastors in thinking about their role.  Yes, we are shepherds. But before we are shepherds, we are sheep.  And the primary need of a sheep is to follow the shepherd—the ultimate good shepherd.

So we could say, that before we talk about any of the functions of shepherding (the 6 G’s), we need to remember that our first duty as pastors is to stay close to Jesus and follow him. Why? Because before we are shepherds, we are first sheep!

 

Monday, February 10, 2014

HOW TO GET RID OF YOUR PASTOR

A devotional I used to share with churches that I ran across in my study today:


HOW TO GET RID OF YOUR PASTOR

First, look the pastor straight in the eye while he’s preaching and say “amen” once in a while and he’ll probably preach himself to death. 

Second, pat him on the back and brag on his good points and he’ll probably work himself to death.  

Third, rededicate your life to Christ and ask the preacher for some job to do and he’ll die of heart failure. 

And fourth, get the church to unite in prayer for the pastor, and he’ll become so effective that some larger church will take him off your hands.
 
 

Sunday, February 9, 2014

Reflection of worship at NRN today

     Today Pastor Gary Narron presented part 2 of this teaching series while Pastor Rick is away on Sabbatical. Pastor Gary is the Director of our FIT Ministry at NRN. 

     Our First Impression Team is vary important to the growth and vitality of our church.  I hope you felt welcomed at church today and know you are a part of our church family if you were with us today!


Saturday, February 8, 2014

Preparing for Worship on February 9 2014

Tomorrow: Pastor Gary Narron will preach the second part of the new teaching series while Pastor Rick is away on Sabbatical.

 

Three times a year, Israelites from all over Israel journeyed to Jerusalem to observe the so-called pilgrimage feasts: Passover in the spring, Pentecost in early summer, and Tabernacles in the fall. At these feasts, all Israel gathered to worship the Lord together as his united people. Worshippers traveled together in groups for safety. As they drew near to Jerusalem, they sang songs together in anticipation of the celebration that was to take place. This collection of songs, known as the Songs of Ascent, we know as Psalms 120-134.
In preparation for worship - join in and prepare your heart for worship as you sing:
 
 
Begin by singing LOUD to the LORD;



Begin to fill your heart with thanks to the LORD:



Now humble your heart before the LORD as you partake in communion.


That is what Scripture means where it says, “Abraham believed God. God accepted Abraham because he believed. So his faith made him right with God.” (Genesis 15:6)      And that’s not all. God called Abraham his friend.
 
 


Open your heart to receive the WORD of the LORD!