Friday, December 21, 2007

Christms is expensive

Time is drawing near for the lighting of the final candles on the Advent wreath for 2007. It is a time for personal reflection and pondering the meaning of Christmas. As I viewed the TV morning shows today I heard no mention of the Christ Child or the meaning of Christmas. I did hear that if you purchase a gift on line it will be delivered before Christmas - but you must order by 3:00pm EST.




These are the last few hours of wrapping presents and preparing for the family gatherings. One thing I absolutely despise is wrapping the gifts. My wife and daughters are very talented at this however, I need help. In my mind I envision a machine to make it easier for challenged individuals like me.

As if you didn’t already know, here’s a news flash:

Christmas is getting more expensive.

That increase is reflected in the annual PNC Christmas Price Index compiled by PNC Wealth Management. According to a Nov. 26,2007 Associated Press report: It would cost $78,100 to buy the 364 items, from a single partridge in a pear tree to the 12 drummers drumming, repeatedly on each day as the song suggests. The cost is up 4 percent from $75,122 last year.

Buying each item in the song just once would cost $19,507, up 3.1 percent from last year’s $18,921. And shopping online would be costlier, with the total for the 364 items costing $128,886, up 2.5 percent from last year’s $125,767. You would spend $31,249 online for each item just once this year. Helping push the cost up this year is the minimum wage hike, which bumped the cost of eight maids a-milking from about $41 to nearly $47.“They have not had an increase since 1997,” said Jim Dunigan, managing executive of investment for PNC Wealth Management. “The good news is, if you’re a maids a-milking, they will also see an increase in 2008 and 2009.”Higher food costs pushed the six geese a-laying from $300 to $360. And reflecting higher gold prices, those five gold rings will cost $395, up 21.5 percent from last year’s $325.


Not everything is more costly. The price of a partridge ($15), two turtle doves ($40) and three French hens ($40) remained the same, as did seven swans a-swimming, at $4,200, and nine ladies dancing, at $4,759. (Click here for BREAKING NEWS and to learn more about the price report.)

I look forward to Sunday morning at NRN as we continue in our Celebration of Christmas. Monday - Christmas Eve will be a great time for the family in our Christmas Eve service at 6:00pm We will be reminded of the real meaning of Christmas. An early Church father Augustine put it this way:

Our Lord came down from life to suffer death;the Bread came down, to hunger; the Way came down, on the way to weariness; the Fount came down, to thirst. —Augustine, Sermon 78

He so loved us that, for our sake, He was made man in time, although through him all times were made. He was made man, who made man.He was created of a mother whom he created.

He was carried by hands that he formed. He cried in the manger in wordless infancy, he the Word,without whom all human eloquence is mute. —Augustine, Sermon 188, 2

THESE MY FRIENDS, ARE TRUSTWORTHY SAYINGS

What do you think? Post a comment. PR

Thursday, December 20, 2007

The W in Christmas


As the Sunday before Christmas approaches I am so excited to be in pastoral ministry once again. I love the people at North Raleigh Church of the Nazarene New friends and wonderful experiences are coming our way.


Below is something of interest sent to me recently. I thought you would enjoy:


The "W" in Christmas


Each December, I vowed to make Christmas a calm and peaceful experience. I had cut back on nonessential obligations - extensive card writing, endless baking, decorating, and even overspending. Yet still, I found myself exhausted, unable to appreciate the precious family moments, and of course, the true meaning of Christmas.


My son, Nicholas, was in kindergarten that year. It was an exciting season for a six year old. For weeks, he'd been memorizing songs for his school's "Winter Pageant." I didn't have the heart to tell him I'd be working the night of the production. Unwilling to miss his shining moment, I spoke with his teacher. She assured me there'd be a dress rehearsal the morning of the presentation. All parents unable to attend that evening were welcome to come then. Fortunately, Nicholas seemed happy with the compromise.


So, the morning of the dress rehearsal, I filed in ten minutes early, found a spot on the cafeteria floor and sat down. Around the room, I saw several other parents quietly scampering to their seats. As I waited, the students were led into the room. Each class, accompanied by their teacher, sat cross-legged on the floor. Then, each group, one by one, rose to perform their song.


Because the public school system had long stopped referring to the holiday as "Christmas," I didn't expect anything other than fun, commercial entertainment songs of reindeer, Santa Claus, snowflakes and good cheer. So, when my son's class rose to sing, "Christmas Love," I was slightly taken aback by its bold title. Nicholas was aglow, as were all of his classmates, adorned in fuzzy mittens, red sweaters, and bright snowcaps upon their heads. Those in the front row- center stage - held up large letters, one by one, to spell out the title of the song.


As the class would sing "C is for Christmas," a child would hold up the letter C. Then, "H is for Happy," and on and on, until each child holding up his portion had presented the complete message, "Christmas Love." The performance was going smoothly, until suddenly, we noticed her; a small, quiet, girl in the front row holding the letter "M" upside down - totally unaware her letter "M" appeared as a "W". The audience of 1st through 6th graders snickered at this little one’s mistake. But she had no idea they were laughing at her, so she stood tall, proudly holding her "W". Although many teachers tried to shush the children, the laughter continued until the last letter was raised, and we all saw it together. A hush came over the audience and eyes began to widen.


In that instant, we understood the reason we were there, why we celebrated the holiday in the first place, why even in the chaos, there was a purpose for our festivities. For when the last letter was held high, the message read loud and clear: "C H R I S T W A S L O V E"


And, I believe, He still is.
Amazed in His presence...humbled by His love.

Sent to me by: Michelle V. Gray

In Jesus was life, and that life was the light of men. The light shines in the darkness, but the darkness has not understood it. May the light of God shine in your heart this Christmas season! This is a trustworthy statement. PR


Friday, December 14, 2007

More warm cookies

On Wednesday Stephanie and Alyse arrived at our home and the laughter has abundant! Alyse is so inquisitive about everything. When she saw the Christmas books on the lower shelve of the table she had to investigate. She gave a precious look at her "papa" when I asked what she we was doing. Her little giggle is brings a great joy to my heart.

Later that night we attended a Christmas party for one of our favorite small groups. Alyse was ready to "party"!

On Thursday she helped her mom and "GRAMMIE" with the baking of even more cookies.

Friday was a short but meaningful trip to Triangle Mall in Raleigh. It was time for Alyse to have her first picture with Santa Claus. She did not disappoint any of us when she laughed while standing in line - only to cry when placed on Santa's lap.



Alyse will know more about Santa and grasp the true meaning of the season in years ahead. Meanwhile - this is the first picture placed on our new refrigerator in our home!


Now I must admit that Stephanie has more pictures of our visit including a video clip which reminds her of a hat on my head at the small group party Go to Stephanie's blog scroll down to Christmas check it out with a simple click HERE ENJOY!


I would appreciate knowing you stopped by - please take a moment and post a short comment. You'll be glad you did!

Monday, December 10, 2007

Warm Cookies







JUST A SIMPLE THOUGHT FOR TODAY. The smell of warm cookies is in our home as Sharron prepares for the Church Board Christmas party at our home tomorrow evening. We have enjoyed the times recently with new friends sitting in resturants and sharing moments of laughter together.

This is truly a trustworthy statement. PR

Saturday, December 8, 2007

Born as a baby - Returning as our King

Sorry for the long delay in my posting. Living life in the fast lane means we have to take time to set priorities and manage our time and calendar well. I have attempted to do this and placed the blogging lower on my list during this Advent season. Now, for the updates:

Sharron and I are truly enjoying our first Advent season in North Carolina since 1980. On that Christmas in Charlotte our daughters Danielle and Stephanie were less than 2 months old. We were renting our first house and even though we had very limited resources we were very happy. Each Christmas a symbol of remembrance is on our family Christmas tree. Here's the story: Sharron and I were able to drive to the mountains of NC and go onto the property of a friend and cut our Christmas tree. We could only afford two strings of lights and spent and evening stringing popcorn for the tress decorations. When Sharron and I thought about what should go on the top of the tree - I took two pieces of cardboard and fashioned a star which I covered in aluminum foil. That star is still atop our family tree each year.


Today God has blessed us with two beautiful daughters, a great son-in-law and the most beautiful grand daughter I know! We are active in pastoral ministry celebrating over 30 years of serving the Lord in full time ministry. God has lead us to a great church and wonderful people to pastor. We have blessed with a wonderful house which Sharron has converted into a home filled with love. My heart is overflowing with gratitude for the blessings of God, the love of my wife, and the aluminum covered card board star on top of our family Christmas tree!


I have an issue that I find alarming that I feel I must comment on. This weekend was the opening of a new movie - The Golden Compass. Though this movie is portrayed as a "children';s movie" and a movie for the "entire family" I am personally disturbed about the theme and content of this movie and sequels planned. On the FOX NEWS website it described the picture as follow: A children’s fantasy film that stars Nicole Kidman and features a little girl on a quest to kill God has some Christian groups upset over what they believe is a ploy to promote atheism to kids. I have not seen the movie and have no intentions of viewing the film and I hesitate to criticize something with such limited exposure. But I strongly encourage parents to investigate the story and message exposed to your children. Once again, I was personally disturbed when I read a comment on the ABC NEWS website from a parent who stated: Why a religious group would tell me or my kids what's good or not to watch, why I as an adult have to monitor religious ideologies to my kids, I have no right to impose any religion to my kids, they don't know what it is! how a Fantasy tale would ever influence them on how they will think latter on about religion. If they wish to add to a religion, latter on, they will. I don't see why all this buzz, some religions are scared to lost members and money to their pockets. Religious groups are not supposed to interfere with the FREE WILL of people. So if you don't like the movie, turn away, don't watch it, but why try to prevent other to watch a fine fantasy movie? To investigate this movie yourself I recommend the following links: Crosswalk and Especially this article for pastors .
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An excerpt from my personal devotion reading today from A Classic Nativity Devotional, by James Stuart Bell (Adapted from the writings of Cyril of Jerusalem (315-386) :
The prophet Malachi speaks of the two comings. And the Lord whom you seek will come suddenly to his temple: that is one coming. Again he says of another coming: Look, the Lord almighty will come, and who will endure the day of his entry, or who will stand in his sight? Because he comes like a refiner's fire, a fuller's herb, and he will sit refining and cleansing.

These two comings are also referred to by Paul in writing to Titus: The grace of God the Savior has appeared to all men, instructing us to put aside impiety and worldly desires and live temperately, uprightly, and religiously in this present age, waiting for the joyful hope, the appearance of the glory of our great God and Savior, Jesus Christ. Notice how he speaks of a first coming for which he gives thanks, and a second, the one we still await.

That is why the faith we profess has been handed on to you in these words: He ascended into heaven, and is seated at the right hand of the Father, and he will come again in glory to judge the living and the dead, and his kingdom will have no end.

Our Lord Jesus Christ will therefore come from heaven. He will come at the end of the world, in glory, at the last day. For there will be an end to this world, and the created world will be made new.

The birth of Jesus Christ in Bethlehem was an epic moment in the formation of the Christian faith, but we must always remember that he will one day return from heaven, not as a baby so humbly born in a manger but as the King of Kings and Lord of Lords.
These my friends are truly trustworthy sayings. Rick

Tuesday, November 20, 2007

A Hospital stay

On Sunday November 18th I spoke about expressing Thanks to God. You can hear this message with a simple click at http://www.nrnazarene.org/services/services/servicepodcasts.html
You will also hear one of the biggest faux paus (blunder,slip of tongue) that I have made in many years! - I laughed and I know if you listen carefully you will too!


Sharron and I enjoyed a wonderful lunch with friends from North Raleigh following the service and then enjoyed a very restful day at home. As the evening came to a close I went upstairs for bed. Sharron was already asleep and I stepped into the bathroom .... the next thing I remember is seeing Sharron's face staring at me. It was a face of terror! She was calling me and asking me if I knew what had happened. I did not. I experienced a syncope, which means I lost conscienceness. I felt no pain, no after effects and showed no reason for concern. We decided after a visit to www.webmd.com not to be overly concerned but see the doctor next day.

On Monday we arrived at the doctor's office at 3:15 and by 5:00pm I was on my way to the emergency room at REX Hospital in Raleigh. I soon began a regiment of test and was admitted for an overnight stay. If you would like to know more about this I invite you to visit the blog site of my daughter Stephanie and her account of this event.

I want to express appreciation to Roy and Donna Philemon and Phil and Joanie Richards for their quick response to be with Sharron on Monday evening at the hospital. I truly appreciated the call from Pastor Kevin and the visits from Pastor Drew, Pastor Ken and Pastor Brittany.



Tears came to my eyes when my daughters Danielle and Stephanie and my grand daughter Alyse arrived to be with me and Sharron. This evening my son in law - Josh arrived! I love being close to family!

The nurses, and all those who ministered to me at REX were wonderful. As I was being transported in house by gurney one nurse said to me , "Pastor, you know everything is going to be alright!" Later that evening I had the privilege of sharing my testimony with a person as I was taken to my room. As the night nurse ended her shift she made a point of stopping by to thank me for our conversations and remind me that she would be praying for me. Sharron and I had a deep peace that God was in control!

The doctor assigned my case came by to report that all the test showed a normal response. My heart is healthy; my cholesterol count was excellent; and the time of testing and observation was over and I was discharged from the hospital. I am very grateful for the thoughts and prayers from the family of North Raleigh. I am a little embarrassed and sorry for the scare, but I know that God meant it for good and will use this situation.

As I celebrate Thanksgiving this year I am very thankful! I am reminded of some of the passages I shared this past Sunday. They spoke to my heart and soul:

“Sing out your thanks to him; sing praises to our God ...” Psalm 147:7

“Give thanks to the Lord and pray to him.” Psalm 105:1

“Thank the Lord! Praise his name! Tell the world about his wondrous love and how mighty he is!” Isaiah 12:4

These my friends, are trustworthy statements. I'm forever grateful! PR


Monday, November 5, 2007

The Birthday Celebration!

Since my last posting my life has been filled with many blessings. I really enjoyed a special "Daddy - Daughter" date with Danielle as we attended Late Night Catechism in Charlotte. This play has been presented over the last 7 years and is GREAT! I really enjoyed the comments from Danielle about the set design - great pictures were drawn by my daughter! I hope they bring the Christmas Catechism to Charlotte in the near future.

The rest of the weekend was having time with Danielle preparing for the birthday celebration planned on November 1.

Sharron and I spent Thursday Nov. 1 celebrating the 27th birthday of Danielle and Stephanie. I am glad that they let me take their picture. We enjoyed a great meal at the Cheesecake Factory and then opened presents. Sharron and I are blessed to have Danielle and Stephanie in our lives. They have grown into beautiful women who love the Lord. We love them so much! Truly, we are blessed to be their parents.

Sharron and I rushed home in preparation for a big weekend at the church. Sunday Nov. 4th was CHURCH UNDER THE BIG TOP at North Raleigh Church of the Nazarene. The day was a great success as we greeted over 50 new guest to the church! Many people made life changing decisions.


I appreciate the group of guy who worked throughout the night before to prepare the 4 pigs for the annual North Carolina style "pig pickin" Wow - the barbecue was EXCELLENT!


I also appreciate Tom Alsbury, the worship team, the sound and video guys for all their hard work in set up and leading us in worship. This ministry unto the Lord brought glory to God! THANKS... A special note to the pastoral staff at North Raleigh: WOW - you really made it happen! The pastoral staff deserves full credit for a great day of celebration. To see an attendance near 400 and sense the wonderful spirit at the service and meal that followed was a fantastic! People are already anticipating this event for next year.

Today was a new day in establishing my regular schedule in the office. I look forward to establishing a balanced schedule for pastoral ministry. A surprise came this afternoon after I left the office when Dave Joslin called and asked if I would like to join him at a Hurricanes game.

The answer came quickly - YES! The Carolina Hurricanes are the 2005-2006 Stanley Cup Champions! Tonight they beat the Washington Capitals by a score of 5 -0. Wow! Great game. I really enjoyed my first professional hockey game and the friendship of Dave. Thanks -
On Sunday I delivered an evangelistic message - as promised.
I simply explained the concept of salvation described in Romans 10:13 - "Everyone who calls upon the name of the Lord shall be saved."
This my friend is truly a trustworthy statement worthy of our consideration.
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Thursday, October 25, 2007

From Homeless - to - Home at last!

It is awesome to see how God is at work in our life!

In my last posting I shared a portion of the journey to bring
us to date at that time. Here is the unfolding of the following days:


On Thursday morning of October 18th we closed on our house in Raleigh. Sharron and I decided to celebrate with a meal at our favorite breakfast restaurant - Cracker Barrel. We purchased a few needed item and then made our way to our new house. With the turn of the key - Sharron re- keyed the house locks to our set of keys. We returned for our final evening at the home of Phil and Joanie Richards.




We arose early on Friday morning to meet the movers at our house. It was a great crew that unloaded us on the rainy morning of Oct. 19th. It did not take long and our house and garage was full of boxes waiting to be unloaded. The movers laughed when I told them I was a minister and they saw the pulpit come out of the trunk and into my garage.
One asked "Did you move the "kitchen sink" as well?


Sharron and I really appreciate the efforts of Joanie Richards as she began the task of unpacking the boxes marked "kitchen". I did not even notice when she slipped away to the store and returned with a house warming gift of chocolate ice cream (with splenda) to place in my empty freezer. THANKS
Also, Phil Richards was there with a pencil behind his ear - his tool box and drill to hang blinds on the windows of our home. WOW! I tried the night before to hand the blinds in our living room but did not have good success.
Phil went to task and I admit I was impressed that he actually read the instructions and placed the blinds in perfect position on all our windows
through out the house. I am thankful and my wife is thrilled to have this task accomplished!


It was so nice to welcome our first guest to our home when Donna and Roy Philemon stopped by with a basket of fresh fruit and cookies. This short visit really encouraged Sharron and I as we felt the transformation of seeing our house become a home.

One of the final task was the removal of our empty boxes and paper to the local recycle center. When Cindi Whiteside heard of this need she moved into action. Jan LaLone (left) and Cindi (right) arrived at our house with a
truck which we loaded to capacity with empty boxes and they took them away for us. This is a real blessing and helped us soooo much! Thanks to Cindi and Jan for their labor of love.




The biggest surprise of all came when Josh, Stephanie and Alyse arrived for their first visit to "Grammy and Papa's house". We enjoyed an
evening together and then Josh returned to Charlotte and Stephanie and Alyse have spent the remainder of this week with us. Our house has become a home. There has been the sounds of laughter by our granddaughter. Tonight there were even tears before she settled for the night.


On Sunday morning my voice was almost gone due to my allergies however, I was able to preach the final message in the current series.


The church board surprised the pastoral staff with a special presentation
for Pastoral Appreciation Sunday. I was so thankful for the church family at
North Raleigh and the generosity shown to me and my family. I am so blessed!
Sharron and I are so happy!

We are now home at last!
Thank you for your thoughts and prayers for us during this time of transition. Sharron and I have dedicated our home to the Lord! It is amazing to see how God set everything into order, in the perfect time, in His perfect way. I am reminded of a passage of Scripture I recently shared on a Sunday morning:
"The One who called you is completely dependable . If he said
it, he'll do it!"
1 Thess. 5:24 (MSG)
This my friends, is truly a trustworthy statement!
PR

Wednesday, October 17, 2007

HOMELESS

It's true - Sharron and I are now truly homeless! It was about 2:30pm on Monday October 15th when we received a phone call from our realtor in Topeka,KS to report that the closing was complete and that we are no longer home owners in Topeka. Then came the best words about our house: "The money is in the bank!" We have never been so excited about being homeless.


Though sometimes I do feel like Mr. Farlow - Right now - all seems well!


On Tuesday we met with our realtor in Raleigh and conducted our walk through of our new home. Wednesday was the day to purchase blinds and needed "stuff" for the move in day. I spoke to our driver (Bill) this afternoon who reported that he was in Missouri with all our personal belongings. This afternoon we secured our cashiers check for the scheduled closing of our new home.


The closing takes place in the morning at 8:30am. This means this is our last night to be homeless. Our moving van is scheduled to arrive at our new home on Friday at 8:30am

We once again wish to express our thanks and deep appreciation to Phil and Joanie Richards for their hospitality. The guest room in their home has been my home away from home for several months now. I cannot imagine my ministry in Raleigh without their support. The sweet tea with "splenda" and the chocolate ice cream has been more that I could have ever hoped for. My wife Sharron is convinced that truly you have "spoiled me" - THANKS.

I also want to thank the family of NRN for thier patience and support during this extended time of transition. The prayer support and the words of encouragement have meant sooooo much!


THANKS Josh and Steph - Thanks for opening your home to use for such an extended time. We love you, Alyse and Danielle so much!

I look forward to my next posting to give you an update on our new home. We have felt God's presence through this time of transition.

God is good all the time - All the time God is Good!

This my friend is a trustworthy statement . Thanks for stopping by. PR


Friday, October 12, 2007

Moving Day in Kansas

On Tuesday Oct. 9th Sharron and I returned to Kansas to meet with the movers and begin the final phase of our transition to North Carolina. We appreciate the members of Topeka Transfer and Storage that packed our belongings for the move. They did a GREAT JOB!


On the day we met the "packers" at the house we noticed the road in front of our house had been recently prepared for paving. As the morning began the equipment arrived to pave the road in front of our house. Our house was filled with activity as the moving process began and the smell of fresh and hot asphalt filled the air. The packing took place on Wednesday and Thursday.


Sharron and I enjoyed the Wednesday evening meal with Pastor Alfredo Barreno and his family. They invited us into their home for a delicious meal and great time of sharing. We will truly miss Pastor Alfredo and his family.

Today (Friday Oct. 12th) The moving truck arrived. The crew began about 8:30am and by 2:30pm the truck was driving away. Thanks to Bill and his crew for a great loading day! Sharron and enjoyed a lunch with David and Nell Deck as we shared goodbyes. Our heart is filled with many emotions. Sharron and I thought of the first time we saw our home in Topeka. The last time we stood beside a moving truck filled with our belongings was on the morning of September 11, 2001. Today was a much different day!

Though we miss many friends in Kansas, we are very excited about our future and the ministry at North Raleigh Church of the Nazarene. It is a new chapter in our lives. We say goodbye to Kansas for the final phase of transition and look forward to closing on our new home next week and unpacking our belongings into our new home before the end of next week.

Sharron and I realize that we have said goodbye to Kansas. In many ways it has been difficult to say goodbye. The many friends we leave behind mean very much to us. The labor of ministry for six years has given me a love and appreciation for the church family in Kansas. We will miss them!

A new ministry awaits us in North Carolina. This is a dream being fulfilled to return to NC. As we explained our move to many people we simply said "We are going home." Those words to explanation seemed to satisfy every inquiry. It is amazing to see the hand of God upon our lives. Sharron and I are truly amazed at the faithfulness and trustworhtyness of our great God.

As I finally began reading my book of the week I read a very simple yet profound dedication in front of the book. The book is "One thing you can't do in heaven" by Mark Cahill. The dedication reads as follows:

Very special thanks to: Jesus Christ for giving me a reason to live, and a reason to die.

WOW! That is a great and powerful trustworthy statement for consideration!

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Thursday, October 11, 2007

LIFE COMES AT YOU FAST

Since my last posting - my life is been hectic and full. Just like a current commercial on TV says: "Life comes at you fast". We enjoyed a great family vacation and then prepared to resume life in the fast line.

On our way back to Raleigh for our first weekend back - I was sitting in the passenger seat as Sharron drove. She asked me "did you feel that?" Soon we were on the side I-85 with a flat tire.




About an hour later we were on our way to the home of Phil and Joanie Richards. Sunday was a great day in the Lord with a time of worship and service and God's presence was with us!

On Monday Sharron and I departed for the mountains of North Carolina for the annual pastor's retreat with the NC District of the Church of the Nazarene. It was a time of making new friends. It was a time of reflection as I took in the sights of beautiful mountains of North Carolina. The last time I was on a retreat at Ridgecrest was shortly after graduating from college when I served as youth pastor at St. Paul Wesleyan Church in Charlotte, NC.Sharron and I especially enjoyed meeting the area General Superintendent for the Church of the Nazarene. We asked the pastors to join us in the request for the sale of our house.
As we gathered in NC for our retreat I remembered that many of the pastors in Kansas were gathering for the annual retreat in the Colorado mountains. I contact our friend Rob Stewart and asked that the pastors join us in prayer.

On Tuesday evening I received a phone call from our realtor, Jerry Brosious, and after several counter offers - WE SOLD OUR HOUSE IN TOPEKA! When we shared the good news with our Nazarene brothers and sisters a cheer was raised with praise!


NOW a NEW CHAPTER of our life begins to unfold:


The next Monday Sharron and I met with our agent with Countrywide Home Loans to pre-qualify for a house loan. Tuesday we met with our new realtor in Raleigh and by Wednesday we had signed a contract for a new house. Words cannot express our excitement when the offer was accepted and Sharron and I stood outside our new home in Raleigh.



God has richly blessed us with a new 4 bedroom, 2.5 bath home with a living room, family room, dining room and a loft upstairs for a home study. We are scheduled to go to closing on Thursday Oct. 18th and the moving truck is scheduled to arrive on the morning of Friday October 19th.

I have shared with several friends that Sharron and I had prayed and prayed and finally shared with the Lord that we were at the end of our rope. We believe that God heard not only our prayers, but also those of the pastors in NC and Kansas and the faithful prayers of the family at North Raleigh. I am so thankful for the patience shown by the family at North Raleigh and their support for us during this extended transition. We can hardly wait to establish our new home in Raleigh NC.


I also believe that when God answered our prayers it was like a row of dominoes set forth. I could picture my heavenly father looking down at us with a smile on his face. When we asked in faith it was like God saying "Okay, you asked for this... then with a thump of his thumb on the first dominoes - the progression took place quickly as each piece of his will for us began to unfold. When I look back at the last 2 weeks it is almost a blur to see the powerful hand of God at work in our lives. It is always good to see God active in our lives and give credit where credit is due.


I was out of the pulpit for the first Sunday since becoming Lead Pastor at North Raleigh as Sharron's father and brother traveled from Canada to join us for the Canadian Thanksgiving weekend (over our Columbus Day weekend). We enjoyed the family gathering on Sunday with the traditional Thanksgiving meal. It was a special treat to have Sharron's Dad - Emerson Wiltshire with us to see his first great grandchild. The four generation picture is of Em with his daughter Sharron and her daughter Stephanie with her daughter Alyse. I really enjoyed the time with Dad and Les (Sharron's brother). We appreciate the hospitality of Josh and Stephanie. We also appreciate Joyce Ford opening her home for us for the overnight time. God has blessed us with family and friends.

Dad and Les departed from Raleigh on Monday. Sharron and I departed on Tuesday for Kansas to meet with the movers as we pack the house on Wednesday and Thursday and plan to load the truck on Friday ( in the morning) and see the truck depart for our new home in Raleigh. Sharron and I fly back to Raleigh on Saturday and I look forward to preaching on Sunday!


"Therefore encourage one another and build each other up, just as in fact you are doing." 1 Thess 5:11 These my friends, are trustworthy words which I want to apply to my life. PR

Friday, September 21, 2007

Reflections from a family vacation

Sorry for the long delay in my posting. On September 9th I preached during the morning service at North Raleigh Church of the Nazarene. You can hear this message at http://www.nrnazarene.org/services/services/servicepodcasts.html Soon after the worship service Sharron, Danielle, Alyse and I departed for North Topsail Beach on the Outer Banks of North Carolina. I did not have Internet access for almost a week.



When we arrived at the house we rented "Dolphin View" we were thrilled! Josh and Stephanie had gone ahead on Saturday and opened the house ready for our arrival.

The next five days established the memories I had longed for. Each morning Josh, Stephanie and Danielle made their way across the dunes and laid out on the beach. They enjoyed the time splashing in the Atlantic Ocean!

Sharron and I spent very little time at the beach - but lots of time holding our granddaughter and enjoying quiet moments together. We needed this time together. The separation caused in our current situation has caused a stress in our lives that we have not experienced since the early days of beginning ministry.


We appreciate the linens, beach chairs and "stuff" loaned to us by Phil and Joanie Richards. Once again they have expressed kindness to our family. A deep sense of loneliness came over me when the vacation ended by driving to Raleigh to retrieve Danielle's car and then see her, Alyse and Sharron depart for Indian Trail. On Sunday morning I struggled to go to church (wow - that's being transparent) -but God reminded me that I am the PASTOR. When I stood to preach on Sunday I felt an unusual anointing of the Holy Spirit and a real freedom to preach.


I remained in Raleigh through Thursday of this week. I jumped in with both feet to tackle several administrative task and responsibilities in the office. It was good to meet with each pastoral staff member individually and then together at our weekly staff meeting. The church board meeting on Tuesday evening began with 45 minutes in prayer. I departed the Richards' home on Thursday and today I am at Josh and Stephanie's house in Indian Trail. It is good to be with Sharron again and to enjoy our family. I am looking forward to preaching on Sunday as we continue in our series of messages entitled The Church That God Designed as we survey the book of 1 Thessalonians.


On Sunday we will look at First Thessalonians 2:17 - 3:13 As Sharron and I have gone through the experience of not have a home of our own and my commuting twice a week between Raleigh and Indian Trail we have faced tensions. stress and obstacles that we have not faced before. It has been difficult to stay content in these times, but God is continually proving His faithfulness to us. Paul said to those in the church " Night and day we pray most earnestly that God will supply that which is lacking in your faith." ( 1 Thess. 3:10b) There are three aspects to the prayer Paul prays for us. He prays that we might have a strong relationship with God; an ever-growing love for all people; and steadfastness in faith.


WOW! These my friends, are truly Trustworthy Statements! Check back again after Sunday!

Oh, by the way, now this my blog site is linked to the web site of the church http://www.nrnazarene.org/index.html - please post a comment that let me know you stopped by. Thanks PR

Friday, September 7, 2007

A TIME FOR TEARS

TEARS OF PAIN - TEARS OF JOY. Over the past few weeks I have found tears flowing. I always get emotional when I see my grand daughter Alyse. We call this picture "Warm Sheets"
- Think about it !

Sorry for the long delay in returning to my blog. As I shared in my last blog entry, Sharron and I were in Concordia, KS for the trail of Pastor Brian Sprung. One aspect of this experience was that I was sequestered for two days. When I was able to testify the time on the stand was very brief. Sharron and I departed Kansas to return to North Carolina for an expected time of great service at North Raleigh. Then came a time for tears.

My heart was deeply saddened by the news of death of Greg Wright. Greg Wright, 44, passed away unexpectedly on Wednesday, August 22, 2007. Greg is survived by his wife, Suellen Russo Wright and children, Kevin and Erin. He was known for his quick wit and great sense of humor. He was an avid woodworker and tennis player. His love for Christ was expressed in his role as an outstanding husband and father. He provided never ending support for those in need. He was most proud of watching his children play sports, and his ability to provide for his family. The funeral for Greg took place on Sunday August 26th at North Raleigh. I had only spoken to Greg once. Truly, I was moved by the memorial service. I was thankful to have the opportunity to pray with Suellen and the family on that day. I was also very moved by the response of the members of their small group and the family of North Raleigh. The installation service by Dr. Mark Barnes has been rescheduled for last Sunday of October.

Another time for tears occurred after hearing the news of the verdict in the Brian Sprung case. I received a phone call from Kansas District Superintendent Ed Rotz notifying me that the jury found Brain guilty on four felony counts. Brian is current incarcerated in the Cloud County Jail awaiting his sentencing hearing on October 1st. Brian has served in pastoral ministry for over 25 years. I have only known him as a person living above reproach. This decision of the justice system is very disturbing. My heart breaks for Brian and his family during this difficult time. I also pray for those who brought these charges against him. It is a reminder to me as a pastor how fragile ministry really is. I thank God every day for the privilege to serve Him and ask God to protect me and keep my heart and mind pure in Him. I strive daily to live to the praise of my Savior.

I am very thankful for the privilege of serving as Lead Pastor of North Raleigh Church of the Nazarene. When I think of the journey Sharron and I have been on for the past 6 months I am so happy to be in pastoral ministry. Sharron told me recently that she has seen the joy in my preaching at North Raleigh. As I prayed last evening tears came to my eyes as I shared my thanks to God. If you would like to hear my most recent message click here:http://www.nrnazarene.org/services/services/servicepodcasts.html

TEARS OF JOY came forth on September 1st as our grand daughter Alyse celebrated her six month birth day. Sharron, Stephanie and Alyse met me last Friday in Lexington, NC saving me the drive to Indian Trail. We met at one of our favorite "grandpa" spots - Cracker Barrel.


YES - That is a BIG SMILE on my face as I hold Alyse. Of course she is looking around at other "stuff". She is very observant but when she looks up at me with those deep blue eyes - tears of joy often fill my eyes. I love my family so much.

Finally - the reason I shared with entry with the title of A Time for Tears.


I am sitting in the family room of my new friends - Phil and Joanne Richards. They are in Richmond, Va. and have opened their home to provide me a place to stay in the Raleigh area. (Thanks for the chocolate ice cream!) Sharron, Danielle and Alyse arrive in Raleigh tomorrow as Josh and Stephanie travel to Topsail Beach to open the rental house for our vacation. On Sunday I begin a new series of messages at North Raleigh. We plan to depart after the service for a family vacation on Topsail Beach, NC. When I asked the home owner how close the house we have rented is to the water of the Atlantic Ocean - I was pleased with her response of "only 19 paces!"

Tonight - Friday evening - I am alone and for the first time in several weeks watching a fresh episode of MONK on USA network. YES - tears were in my eyes as I laughed out loud. It never fails - Monk always makes me laugh! This episode reminds me that we all make mistakes - we are only human.

"There is a time for everything and a season for every activity under heaven: ...a time to weep and a time to laugh, a time to mourn and a time to dance..." Ecclesiastes 3:1,4


These my friends are trustworthy sayings...

Thursday, August 23, 2007

Time to re-Wesleyanize

On Sunday August 12 there was a reception for Sharron and me at North Raleigh Church of the Nazarene. The office manager - Donna - took several pictures to document this event. You can view the slide show at the church web site (note the post below and click on the web site).


On Tuesday the 14th I conducted my first church board meeting as Lead Pastor. As the meeting was coming to a close a board member shared with me that it was really good to laugh at a board meeting. I am greatly encouraged by the great leadership team at NRN (North Raleigh Nazarene).


God truly met with us on Sunday morning August 19th as Tom Alsbury and Crystal Bennett with the praise team lead us in worship. I enjoyed preaching the message entitled "Why are we here?" You can hear this message on the church web site - just click on the worship podcast.


An emotional event took place later in the week when we finally secured auto insurance and placed North Carolina license plate on our vehicle. This sounds so simple, but I had NC tags on every car I had until God lead Sharron and I to Christian Fellowship Church in April 1981. Now, 26 years later, we celebrate going home with the reality of NC tags on our vehicle.

When Sharron and I departed from Josh and Stephanie's on Saturday morning we knew we would not be back in Indian Trail for 10 days. I couldn't believe that Stephanie accused us of trying to pack Alyse in our suitcase to take her to Kansas with us!
Why would she ever think we would do that?


The pastoral team departed Sunday afternoon for our first Pastoral Team Advance. We enjoyed a time of sharing, praying, planning and of course pigging out! I believe God has placed a great team together!


A short note of appreciation to Phil and Joanie Richards for their hospitality as Sharron and I stayed in their home on Tuesday evening. I am thankful for the Richards and their open hearts and open home to provide a place for me to stay when in the Raleigh area. I enjoy the laughter with each visit! It was Joanie that gave me a recent copy of Holiness Today - the magazine of the Church of the Nazarene. In this edition I read comments from General Superintendent Nina Gunter as she addressed the M7 conference in Kansas City. She was quoted as saying the following:


"Gunter warned that the rate of change in our culture has increased so quickly that what used to take a generation now changes every 5 years, which presents challenges for our church, some of the biggest challenges in our 100-year history.

Gunter called upon her hearers to rise to those challenges, to re-Wesleyanize the Church of the Nazarene. She asserted that this church is a vigorous 100-year-old, who can still give birth! “We can embrace new methods, new structures, and new ways to connect, serve, and resource our church, all for the ultimate work God has called us to, the work of making Christlike disciples in the nations.”


I shared with the Richards that I am doing my part in this challenge to re-Wesleyanize the Church of the Nazarene!


Today, Sharron and I are in Concordia, KS in compliance to a subpoena I received to testify on behalf of Rev. Bryan Sprung in the entitled action pending in the Cloud County district court. I did not testify today but will be called upon tomorrow. Sharron and I will return to NC on Saturday.


We look forward to Sunday with special guest Dr. Mark Barnes - District Superintendent of the North Carolina Church of the Nazarene. Dr. Barnes will be preaching and conducting an installation service. Next Sunday (September 2) I am planning to preach from Acts 17:1-9 as we explore the establishment of the church in Thessalonica. In the days ahead I plan to preach through the book of First Thessalonians. My heart is stirring as I prepare my first series of messages for NRN. My desire is to preach with the empowerment of the Holy Spirit and share the message of Christ clearly.


Acts 17:3b says "This Jesus I am proclaiming to you is the Christ." This my friends, is truly a trustworthy statement.


Friday, August 10, 2007

FIRST THOUGHTS AS A LEAD PASTOR

On Sunday August 5, 2007 I preached my first sermon as Lead Pastor at North Raleigh Church of the Nazarene. To read more about this and even hear the message I preached on the podcast simply click : http://www.nrnazarene.org/ You can also hear for yourself why I am not the senior pastor - but the lead pastor of the church! Pictures will be posted soon!

I appreciate Crystal Bennett and the worship team leading us into the presence of the Lord. I was especially honored when I looked upon the congregation and saw my dear friends - Doug and Joy Huber with their children, Mac, Jacob and Emma Grace, and Joyce Ford. When I surprised Sharron by asking her to sit with someone for me, she broke into tears when she saw Joyce and the family!

As I shared the message entitled "The Marks of a Healthy Church" the spirit of God moved upon us. At the close of the service I invited people to come forward to the altars to pray and "give this church back to God.". The prayers of many in leadership and then prayers of long time members brought tears to my eyes. People prayed for forgiveness. Many prayed for unity. I believe God was pleased with the many decisions made.


I had the privilege of meeting many new people prior to the service. It was good to be in the foyer to welcome people!

This coming Sunday - August 12th - a 15 minute reception is scheduled for me to meet everyone!

(Cartoon: Copyright Christianity Today International/BuildingChurchLeaders.com. Used with permission.)
http://www.christianitytoday.com/bcl/features/cartoons/

In the office during the week I attending my first meeting with the Steward Committee. This team consist of leaders responsible for outreach, membership and spiritual life in the church. I also met with pastoral staff members and filled the days with meetings and pastoral responsibilities.

I appreciate the hospitality of John and Janet LaLone. They opened their home for my use while they were out of town for the week.

I am really excited about this coming Sunday. Zack Whiteside is leading our worship with the worship team before he heads back to Appalachian University in the beautiful mountains near Boone, NC. His brother Brandon recently graduated from Trevecca Nazarene University. http://www.trevecca.edu/

God has moved upon my spirit to change the message I had planned and follow up on the message from last week. I am putting the strategy together for my first 100 days as pastor.

Sharron is enjoying the time with our family in Indian Trail, NC. I enjoy the days I spend there each week and hold my grand daughter. Her smiles at me are worth the round trip commute to Raleigh each week. We are still praying for the sell of our home in Topeka and look forward to establishing a new home in the Raleigh area.

Sharron noted that the emotional stress was evident by my demeanor last Friday and Saturday. It greatly encouraged me when Sharron told our close friends that "Rick seemed so anxious Saturday afternoon, but after his prayer time at the church late that evening, he seemed like the Rick I haven't seen in quite a while." I admit, it was good to be back into the pulpit as pastor again. I am crying out to God to increase my love for the people at NRN (North Raleigh Nazarene) as I desire to be the best pastor I could possibly be.

This past week I have been thinking each day about what I believe will be the measure of success as pastor at NRN. I know many people are hoping for numerical and financial growth of the church. I trust God for those things. I desire to base my work on the simple definition of success: "Finding out what is on Jesus' heart and then doing it, when and how he says."

I will be sharing these words of missionary Jim Elliott, who gave his life for the cause of Christ in the remote jungles of Ecuador:


"He is no fool who gives up what he cannot keep,

for that which he cannot lose."


I believe this, my friends, is a trustworthy saying.







Saturday, August 4, 2007

I've been tagged

I have been tagged by my friend Amy. Here we go.....

Places I've Lived:
1) Charlotte, NC
2) Herndon, VA (right outside of DC)
3) Bartlesville, OK
4) Marion, IN
5) Sturgis, MI
6) Topeka, KS
7) Raleigh, NC (I'm on my way.)

Favorite TV Shows:
1) Monk
2) Psych
3) Hell's Kitchen
4) Law and Order (Criminal Intent)

Favorite Food:
1) Anything chocolate
2) BBQ
3) I like my Momma's Pancake breakfast at Cracker Barrel (blueberry's in the pancakes)
4) Chicken and rice

Places I'd rather be:
1) My wife says- Church
2) My daughter says - asleep
3) I say- alone
4) Ricar, Ecuador

Favorite movies:
1) Star Wars (The 1st trilogy)
2) Field of Dreams
3) Bourne series (I am going to see the new one asap)
4) Home movies of Alyse

Tag Time:
1) Stephanie
2) If you are reading this and you attend NRN then you are tagged!

Tuesday, July 31, 2007

We're not in Kansas anymore

I realize I am not the originator of that phrase. In 1930 those words were penned by Frank L. Baum in his children's book entitled "The Wonderful Wizard of Oz". This book was later made into a film in 1939 by MGM - in Technicolor -(released August 23, 1939) and as soon as "Dorothy" (played by 17 year old Judy Garland) arrived in the fantasy word of Oz the first words she spoke were: "Toto. I I've got a feeling we're not in Kansas anymore." Those words were echoed more recently in the 1996 song by Jo Dee Messina - "You're not in Kansas anymore." For Rick and Sharron Hudgens - these are more than quaint words - truly - We are not in Kansas anymore!

On Saturday July 28 Sharron and I arose early from a short sleepless night. The toll from the physical work in the house and vacating our personal items from the Kansas District Ministry Center became evident. The emotional toll was even greater. We departed from our house at 10:00am as a realtor arrive to show the house to a young couple. Sharron and I went for our last meal at Cracker Barrel and said goodbye to several there who have become friends. We then returned home and packed the car for our trip to Charlotte, NC. As we departed Topeka our hearts and minds were filled with good thoughts and memories of a time well spent and the blessings of ministry. No large fanfare to say goodbye, we felt it we just slipped away into the next stage of the transition.

With each mile we travelled we became more excited about the reality that we were returning home to North Carolina. We departed NC on April 1, 1981 to never hold residence there again until now. What does it mean to us to go home?

FIRST - and most important - is the call of God upon our lives to continue in the Lord's service. I am excited about my newly established position with New Church Specialities and the opportunity to make an impact in the lives of pastors and churches. I admit - I am anxious about full time pastoral ministry again. My heart is burring to preach and I believe God is giving me a clear vision for the direction of North Raleigh Church of the Nazarene. The welcome from the Church as already begun. (I invite you to click on the web site - look to your right- and check out the welcome for us!) Tomorrow is my first day in the office and Sunday my first message as Lead Pastor. I am believing for an outpouring of the Holy Spirit during the service. I pray the altars will be lined with people praying as the service comes to a close.


SECOND - Family. I am trying to grasp the reality that Sharron and I will be less than 2 hours from our family. When Josh and Stephanie moved to Charlotte, North Carolina Sharron and I began to think about when we should return to NC. When Danielle made the decision to relocate to North Carolina, Sharron and I once again began to think about when we should relocate. In 2005 my mother passed away and for the first time in my adult life my two brothers met with me individually and asked if I would ever return to NC. They had missed seeing our girls grow up into adulthood and Sharron and I had missed seeing my niece and nephews growing up.


Our closest friends - Joyce Ford, and Doug and Joy Huber and family began to ask if we were thinking about ever coming back to North Carolina. On March 1, 2007 Alyse Nicole came into the world. When I returned to Kansas the next week and met with Dr. Jerry Pence - General Superintendent of the Wesleyan Church about my upcoming election for the continuing of my service as DS - the emotions were high. Sharron and I prayerfully decided that now was the time to bring our ministry to a close in Kansas so I withdrew my name from consideration as DS.

With that, the journey began which brought us to this moment. We're not in Kansas anymore.

We are now living in the guest room of our daughter and son-in-law Josh. We are not homeless - it's just all our belongings and our house for sell is still in Topeka, Kansas. As Sharron and I discussed this today we were reminded that when we accepted the position as DS in Kansas (July 30, 2001) we did not actually arrive to our new home in Kansas until the morning of September 11th. We believe we will be moving into our new home in Raleigh before the middle of September 2007. Until that time, "I am not saying this because I am in need, for I have learned to be content whatever the circumstances. I know what it is to be in need, and I know what it is to have plenty. I have learned the secret of being content in any and every situation, whether well fed or hungry, whether living in plenty or in want, I can do everything through Him who gives me strength." ( Philippians 4:11-13 NIV)

My faith and trust are in Him who continually proves Himself faithful to us. I speak of our Lord and Saviour Jesus Christ, These, my friends, are indeed, trustworthy sayings.

Oh, by the way: the final words the character Dorothy said in the movie "The Wizard of Oz" was..."There's no place like home". As we crossed the state line into North Carolina, Sharron looked at me and asked , "Do you feel like you're home". I smiled, and with tears in my eyes responded, "YES". A few hours later we held Alyse in our arms and knew we had made the right decision to relocate to NC.



Saturday, July 28, 2007

The Great Adventure

The time is quickly approaching for our departure from Kansas. We are facing the great adventure!



Sharron and I found our schedule full as we prepare the last minute responsibilities at our house in Topeka. We took time on Thursday to meet with Pastor Alfredo Barreno and his son Christian. Sharron and I are constantly blessed by Pastor Alfredo and his family. Our ministry opportunities were great and our friendship has deeply grown over the past six years.

It was a happy moment when we signed the title of our 1993 Ford Festiva to Pastor Alfredo for his son Christian. This is his first car. They had been looking for a vehicle for Chris and when they indicated interest in purchasing our car - it was a joy to sell it to them for Chris.

Sharron and I worked until late last evening and then concluded the work of packing my office and personal items at the District Ministry Center today. It was an emotional moment as I surrendered my keys to the facility. We have now vacated the Ministry Center. No one else was there today because this is the day of the annual district conference. Today was the election for a new District Superintendent. My thoughts and prayers are with the pastors and delegates. I appreciate the leadership of Dr. Jerry Pence as General Superintendent and believe the conference will go well today and the celebration to follow will be great!

I have counted it a privilege to serve as District Superintendent of the Kansas District of the Wesleyan Church since July 2001. I believe this experience has continued to mold and shape me into the man of God and minister of the gospel that God intends me to be. I am very thankful for this opportunity. It is with deep love for the pastors and churches that I step away from this position. As you may have read this blog in the past; now is the time to face the simple priorities that Sharron and I established for our life and ministry together 29 years ago. God is first - family and close friends are second - and ministry (church) is third. We are confident in our decision to return home to North Carolina to be near family and life long friends.

It was disappointing during these past three months as doors of opportunity closed before us. It is also amazing how God opened the door to return me to pastoral ministry at a great church. I begin my responsibilities at North Raleigh Church of the Nazarene next week. Check out their web site about our arrival http://www.nrnazarene.org/

We are departing for NC on Saturday July 28th. Stephanie and Josh say they are ready for our arrival. The church is reaching out to us to assist us in our time of transition. We are excited about the new adventure and the journey of faith God is taking us on. I am reminded of one of my favorite songs:

The Great Adventure

(by:Steven Curtis Chapman, Geoff Moore)

Saddle up your horses!
Yeah a ah, Yeah a ah (saddle up your)
Saddle up your horses we've got a trail to blaze
through the wild blue yonder of God's amazing grace
let's follow our leader into the glorious unknown
this is a life like no other whoa ooh
this is the Great Adventure

Saddle up your horses we've got a trail to blaze
through the wild blue yonder of God's amazing grace
let's follow our leader into the glorious unknown
this is a life like no other ooh


Saddle up your horses we've got a trail to blaze
through the wild blue yonder of God's amazing grace
let's follow our leader into the glorious unknown
this is a life like no other whoa ooh
this is the Great Adventure


The great adventure, the great adventure
The great adventure, the great adventure

These truly are trustworthy sayings.....

Wednesday, July 25, 2007

Faith for the Future

The time is approaching for Sharron and I to pack the car and head out for North Carolina. It's time for another chapter of our life to begin. Today we met with our realtor, Jerry Brosius about our home for sale in Topeka. We think the trimming of the tree in the front of our house has made a great difference. If you want to know more about our listing - check out the website for our realtor http://www.jerrybrosius.com/ Just click on My Listings and go to 6453 SW 24th St.
This is now our outstanding prayer request. Until we are able to sell our house in Topeka, we are limited to rent or purchase a home in Raleigh. We have an open house scheduled for Sunday August 5th. As I preach my first sermon as Lead Pastor of North Raleigh Church of the Nazarene - our house in Topeka will be featured in an open house. We are trusting God for the sale of our house.
It seems that Josh and Stephanie will once again open their hearts ( and their spare room) for Sharron and I to move in. Already invitations are coming from people at NRN (North Raleigh Church of the Nazarene) for Sharron and I to stay in their homes and even the possibility of hotels over the weekends to prepare for Sunday mornings. One faithful church member has stated "We don't want you guys to feel like you're homeless..." Sharron and I realize we are not homeless - it's just our house is in Topeka, KS. We also realize it is a difficult transition but we are so excited about going home to NC and my heart is being stirred with the reality of pastoral ministry.
These final days in Topeka are hectic and emotional. My heart was greatly touched by the phone call of our good friend Pastor Mark McGregor who called to say goodbye and encourage me. Tomorrow I meet with Pastor Alfredo Barreno to say farewell to this good friend. As the Kansas District of the Wesleyan Church gathers for the annual Conference - Sharron and I will be packing my books and vacating the Ministry Center. The reality of departure is stirring many emotions. I have loved being a DS. I deeply care for the pastors of the Kansas District. As the new DS is elected on Friday July 27th I wish to state my support with deep respect and admiration for Pastor Ed Rotz. May all who come behind us find us faithful.
Hebrews 11:1 tells us "Now faith is being sure of what we hope for and certain of what we do not see." and I know that "Without faith it is impossible to please God..." (Heb. 11:6) These are days of uncertainty for Sharron and I as we make this transition to Raleigh. We are trying not to be overwhelmed but keeping our focus (fix our eyes) on JESUS the author, source, perfecter, completer, our of faith. (Heb. 12:2) We have faith for the future.
These my friends, are trustworthy sayings!

Sunday, July 22, 2007

I HATE CHANGE ?

I must admit: I HATE CHANGE! However, I have learned the lesson that change is inevitable. Everything that grows MUST change! No change - no life! Here are the two recent examples that have touched my life:

First: Our four month old grand daughter Alyse is being nursed by her mom - Stephanie. To supplement these feedings Alyse takes from a bottle. As her "Papa" it has brought great joy to hold her in my arms and feed her. It is very evident that she loves her bottle. Recently, her mom introduced a big change: it is time to begin to feed Alyse baby cereal to introduce new foods.


Though change is sometimes unpleasant - it is necessary. As Alyse took her first "bites" (she has no teeth yet) it was clear that she likes this new change. The bottle or the cereal - both are not only nutritional but very necessary is the physical growth of Alyse.


This is a very simple change in life. I wish all change was this simple. Soon this change of diet will be replaced with other foods and life goes on.





Second - Today the membership of North Raleigh Church of the Nazarene conducted the much anticipated pastoral vote. My response to the result of the vote is as follows:


On Sunday July 22, 2007 I received a telephone call from Dr. Mark Barnes – District Superintendent of the North Carolina District of the Church f the Nazarene regarding the results of the pastoral vote taken at North Raleigh.

The results are as follows: 128 votes cast; 114 Yes; 14 No; and very positive vote of 89%

This vote has been covered in prayer and in response; it is my privilege to accept the call as Lead Pastor of North Raleigh Church of the Nazarene.

Sharron and I plan to relocate to the Raleigh area as soon as possible. We anticipate our first Sunday as pastor to be August 5, 2007. We look forward to serving with the pastoral team at North Raleigh. It is a time to look with faith for the future. Please pray for the sell of our house in Topeka, KS. and the transition to Raleigh. Plan now to invite friends and family to join you as we celebrate our first Sunday together on August 5th.


Sharron and I are very excited about this change in our life. When we decided it was time to bring a close of our ministry in Kansas, it was one of the most difficult decisions of our life. It was at that time we clearly felt it was time for us to move back to North Carolina.
The move to Raleigh is filled with great anticipation! We realize that many changes are before us. In the days ahead we are praying earnestly for the sell of our house in Topeka, Ks. We appreciate the hard work of our realtor and trust God for the timing for the sell of the house! Our plans are to begin the relocation process by the end of the week. We will be spending time in Indian Trail NC and then on to Raleigh to being a new chapter of ministry in our life's journey.
The changes before us are HUGE! Our faith and confidence are in the Lord God.
These are the trustworthy words given to us at church today: "And looking upon them Jesus said to them,'With men this is impossible, but with God all things are possible.'" (Matthew 19:26)
I have been reminded that our impossibilities are God's opportunities when we place our hope and trust in Him. I am convinced today that God will make a way when there seems to be no way. I will not be filled with anxiety about the changes and transitions in my life - but express my praise for God who directs my path and makes the way smooth. I am embracing the changes God is making in my life.
UMM - maybe it's not change I hate - just the "stuff" you have to deal with to bring about effective change.